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Author:  dark one [ Tue Dec 23, 2008 9:29 pm ]
Post subject:  If a girl asks you to wait for her?
Let say a girl asks you to wait for her in a bar while she is going to the bath room, or If your online and she says "Il be back in 15 mins stay on line"....what would you boys do? Now I am geting very good at reading women and responding but this one has me stumped.
Author:  vitaminc [ Tue Dec 23, 2008 9:42 pm ]
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not sure about online... never tried gaming a girl over chat.

i generally dont think much of it if a girl tells me to wait for her while she's going to the bathroom or bar, apart from it being an IOI.

normally i just say "oh, grab me a beer while you're at the bar" or "ok, i'll be at the bar/with my friends/etc" when she goes to the ladies room.
doesnt really matter. it's not a shit test... maybe a small compliance test but only to see if you're into her. i just move to the bar or to my friends to make sure she doesnt feel like i'm falling into her frame :wink:
Author:  Sincerelee [ Tue Dec 23, 2008 9:51 pm ]
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Reply, sure. I'll just wait here talking to the patrons of this fine establishment.

As soon as she is walking away, open a set next to you. Stay near your original location and runthreads with the set until enough time has gone to determine whether she is coming back. If she returns, say, "Hi, I was just telling these guys about the time I....(DHV)"

If she doesn't retunr, and just used the bathroom as an excuse to get away, you wasted little time looking like a chump.
Author:  Lucky D [ Wed Dec 24, 2008 1:30 am ]
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Hey Awms!

If a girl asks you to wait and you just wait there, you're admitting that she's the main attraction and that you can't have fun without her, thus you are dependant of her.

You can tell her Sure, I'll be at the bar or I'll be over there and then go have fun somewhere else while she's gone.

The concept is that your fun is irrelevant to her. Wether she's there or not you're gonna be having just as much fun because you are independent of her.
Author:  jurupa [ Wed Dec 24, 2008 5:13 pm ]
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Quote:
Hey Awms!

If a girl asks you to wait and you just wait there, you're admitting that she's the main attraction and that you can't have fun without her, thus you are dependant of her.

You can tell her Sure, I'll be at the bar or I'll be over there and then go have fun somewhere else while she's gone.

The concept is that your fun is irrelevant to her. Wether she's there or not you're gonna be having just as much fun because you are independent of her.
What if she has to legitimately use the restroom?
Author:  Lucky D [ Wed Dec 24, 2008 7:21 pm ]
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If she really, honestly has to go to the washroom, it's ok! but still you should tell her "Ok, I'll be over there" or something in the likes.
It's not rude, you're not ditching her, ur'e just continuing to have fun while she's gone. And when she gets back & comes to see you, you can swich your attention back to her and continue on from where you were.
Simple as that man! Merry Chrismas
Author:  Sheer Con [ Wed Dec 24, 2008 7:22 pm ]
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washroom depends on situation. if its a date then wait. if its at a club I'd open another set. good for social proof, demonstrating value, and sets jelousy traps.

Online I wouldnt wait. or stay online but just dont answer her. ur a busy man and dont have time to wait in front of a computer all day. uve got shit to do!
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