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| Author: | sorin93 [ Tue Dec 23, 2008 1:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | ONE-ITIS!! I'M STUCK |
i was with this girl off and on for a year. i was a pussy. she cheated on me and i still cant get over her. i need help getting over her. and i'm so jealous that she has a new boyfriend and she always talks about how he's so nice. haha this is really stupid but i cant get over her and she's a bitch |
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| Author: | Jester23 [ Tue Dec 23, 2008 4:26 am ] |
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dude go out and get laid or better yet find a new gf. If she cheated on you then fuck her, she isn't worth your time and she doesn't deserve you. |
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| Author: | DesertHighway [ Tue Dec 23, 2008 5:43 pm ] |
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Yeah friend, she's not worth your time. And the sad part is, that through your behavior you lost her.. you acted too beta. By WANTING her, you exuded that vibe to her and it lowers your standing in her eyes. Take some time off to re-examine your life and your goals. Read up on some new PUA material and get out there as a new man! |
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| Author: | AceofSpades07 [ Wed Dec 24, 2008 12:35 am ] |
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The best cure for oneitis 1.Take a good look at the girlfriend 2.go and fuck 10 other chicks 3. take another look at her. 4. if shes still as appealing to you then go back to step two and repeat as many times as nessacary |
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| Author: | Myth [ Wed Dec 24, 2008 2:43 am ] |
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Best advise to get over it is talk to other girls "Id rather replace her then chase her" |
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| Author: | sorin93 [ Wed Dec 24, 2008 9:21 pm ] |
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Quote: Don't do the nostalgic thoughts of how she was so great. Don't glorify her in your mind. She cheated on you, obviously things were not great. Look back on memories and realize how bad things were, and how great things will be with your new girlfriend. Was it your first serious LTR?
yea it was my first serious LTRand thanks for the advice guys, i'm making a lot of progress haha |
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| Author: | sorin93 [ Thu Dec 25, 2008 8:08 pm ] |
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Quote: The problem with your first LTR is that it's your first LTR. People only can judge their experiences based off of past experiences. This means your LTR could've been the worst one in human history, but you won't realize this until you have a another LTR to compare it to. The more LTRs you get, the more accurate your judgments will be on what is a good/bad LTR.
If your a logical thinker, this should help rationalize some stuff. the way you explained it makes a lot of sense. your advice just might have helped me get over m one-itis. being sad over some girl is stupid and that energy should be used toward getting a new girl. i'm now one-itis free. |
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