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| Author: | cashier [ Mon Dec 22, 2008 1:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | virgin question... |
yeahhh well so theres this girl i know and she is a really good girl and she is a virgin (she told me, IOI?..yeh)...anyway my question is....does the "game" have any affect on a virgin or what?? i have not yet number closed..because iam a fucking pussy... now i think somone els is trying to swoop in and i donno what to do... its not a "one-itits"...but i do see GF potential in this girl... hmm need some tips, pointers and/or a good swift kick in the ass... |
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| Author: | Jaybot [ Mon Dec 22, 2008 1:47 am ] |
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It doesn't matter whether they are a virgin or not the techniques will still work, as for tips unless she is into you I would try and build massive amounts of comfort but whilst keeping yourself out of the friend zone. A good way to do this is connect about little things (both like the same crappy movie or tv show). I will probably come back to this in the morning when I'm a tad more awake. Is there anything else you can tell me, are you in the same class? have you spoken to her? is she a friend? anything like that it will help me to help you (hahah what a motivational speaker line) xx |
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| Author: | cashier [ Mon Dec 22, 2008 2:04 am ] |
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Is there anything else you can tell me, are you in the same class? have you spoken to her? is she a friend? anything like that it will help me to help you (hahah what a motivational speaker line) xx
well we actually work together, i no i shouldn't be messing with girls from work but i dont really care about the job and i have just moved out here and its really my only type of social life. But i mean we always talk and i check for some kino/comfort levels, like i will hold my hands out and see if she put her hands on mine, squeeze them and she'll squeeze back, ill raise my hand up for a highfive and hold her hand for a bit while making eye contact.. and just generally flirt all throughout the day... but i never really had the balls to come about asked her for her number, dont know how really...soo today i went by her to start talking and noticed some guy we work with (i knew who it was but she didnt and i didnt say anything) has givin her a note with his number on it saying "i really think u should send me a text"....i was kinda pissed, and a lil upset at myself... it was time for me to leave so i couldn't even stay to ask any questions or anything ooo BTW she didnt even notice the note until a pointed it out...so if she thinks it was me, she is going to text this dude and possibly screw everything up... |
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| Author: | Shatter [ Mon Dec 22, 2008 4:13 am ] |
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ok, her bein a virgin is not goin to change your game. the only thing is that your going to have to understand that this girl may not be willing to give up her virginity very easily. so if your in it for the physical relationship get out now. if you really want this girl just use your game, out AMOG this other guy, and make sure you keep your intentions in plain sight to avoid any possible LJBFs. if you already have IOIs then in my opinion the tough part is over. good luck 
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| Author: | dark one [ Mon Dec 22, 2008 5:17 am ] |
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Listen to me man. Dont play the game on a girl who is a Virgin unless you realy care about her and plan on having a relationship. Trust me you wont feel good about it and it could ruin your relationship. Ther are alot of goons on here who will tell you the opposite of what I am telling you but I like to use the saying " with great power comes great responsibility" Becoming a PUA doesint mean you need to give up being decent human being....unforchantly many PUA's forget that. |
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| Author: | cashier [ Mon Dec 22, 2008 6:58 am ] |
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Quote: ok, her bein a virgin is not goin to change your game. the only thing is that your going to have to understand that this girl may not be willing to give up her virginity very easily. so if your in it for the physical relationship get out now.
Quote: Listen to me man. Dont play the game on a girl who is a Virgin unless you realy care about her and plan on having a relationship. Trust me you wont feel good about it and it could ruin your relationship.
i am starting to have feelings for this girl and the fact that she is a virgin is a big plus in my book(i feel it takes off alot of pressure), iam actually trying to start a relationship with this girl...i feel the tough part (my sticking point) is to actually put my vulnerability out there and get hurt(rejected)... i know its somthing i have to do and the fact that i have to see this girl pretty much everyday doesn't really help...thats why its taking time, and iam afraid if i do take too long i will be in the dreaded "friend zone"... |
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| Author: | dark one [ Mon Dec 22, 2008 7:08 am ] |
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Well If you like her as much as you seem to then I would take her now because nice girls like that are rare! If you know she is into you then you should deff make a move! ask her If she wants to hang out or go out on a date and then feel her out....if the moment is right then kiss her. One of the first lessons I learned is not to wait to long to show a girl how you feel....If you havent taken charge and kissed a girl by the second date then 1# you look weak in her eyes because you arnt taking control, and 2# you are seting your self up for failure. Remeber you are a man, you dont ask you just do it. Dont ask If you can kiss her you just do it, dont were she wants to go you just do it, dont be a dick but be confident and show that you are a man that knows what he wants and how he will get it. That what being an alpha male is all about! |
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| Author: | dark one [ Mon Dec 22, 2008 7:14 am ] |
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This might help you out. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PBqs2Q2TuWk |
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| Author: | Jaybot [ Mon Dec 22, 2008 11:34 am ] |
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i feel the tough part (my sticking point) is to actually put my vulnerability out there and get hurt(rejected)... i
this is probably how she feels too, as for dodging the friend zone ask her to hang out, something low risk/pressure. Such as "me and my buddies are heading out to a bar/film/restaurant, you should come"
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