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Author:  =Prize= [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 5:04 pm ]
Post subject:  A girl slips me her number...

A girl slips me her number during salsa class which she had obviously prepared earlier today. The note said "Call me! If you want to =)".

I'm not interested in the girl and I don't really have any desire to meet her outside of salsa class as friends either. But she is a nice person. I meet her at salsa class once weekly. I'm meeting her tonight as well. Two hours from now. I will probably be flirting with other girls during the night. As I usually do.

How should I respond? Should I call, text, say something tonight? Should I respond at all?

Author:  SqHizzel [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 5:13 pm ]
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you should be somewhat honest. if u aint interested. say you have a on and off relationship, a gf, or a girl ur really interested in.

Author:  =Prize= [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 5:20 pm ]
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"Thanks N! You should know I'm not looking at a relationship at the moment. See you at salsa tonight! I enjoy your dancing company!"

? (too much sexual undertones? I'm not interested in a fling either. This is hard.)



"Thanks N! I enjoy your friendship and dance company! See you at salsa tonight!"

? (too much rejection?)

Author:  =Prize= [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 5:51 pm ]
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Quote:
"Thanks N! I enjoy your friendship and dance company! See you at salsa tonight!"
Winner. I don't think it's too much rejection. It can even be read as appreciation. I'm not saying I won't call. However, I do make my non-relationship intentions clear.

I'm a rAFC. I look forward to being in a place where I feel comfortable with all situations in seduction.

Author:  VanHaven [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 7:30 pm ]
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Something I always tell myself when a girl shows interest that I don't have myself, is that she probably has friends. Like it was said, be honest with her about having no interest in her like that. However, try to keep her around as a friend. It may come in handy later on.

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