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Author:  Scyphe [ Tue Dec 16, 2008 6:08 am ]
Post subject:  Girl I've known

i'll try to keep it simple though it is complex....
There's a girl who i've known for a few years and we've flirted a lot.
She went out with a friend of mine for 9-10 months on and off. (they broke up multiple times)
She is now single after he dumped her last week.
Now everyone is going home for winter break so I will def see her around at parties.
She def has an interest in me as shown by this incident at a party at my college a month ago (when she was still his gf):
-when she saw me as my group met her group on the way to party, she yelled my name excitedly and ran up and hugged me
-later at party, she randomly came up as played with my ear as she passed me, so I did the same and we went back and forth every once in a while durin the night.
-now that i am learning pua tactics I recognize those as IOIs
SOOO...I've talked to her a couple tiems since then
today we had a notable convo tho (hadn't talked in a few weeks) where I learned she got dumped last week:
-we talked for a little about stuff then she talked about the breakup
-she's a little sad but was still talkative and playful
-after the story n such I started throwin in some push/pull and c-f (now that i've started to learn some techniques) and I think she responded well
ex: (talkin bout goin to a party at my other friend's (bob) who is good friends with her ex (sam)):
her: i hope i will still be aloud at bobs even tho sam doesnt like me ha
me:well I dn bout bob he's always a dick about lettin people in and he's good friends with sam you kno
her: very true haha
me:but i'll try and put in a word or two if i feel liek it
her:haha please do
me:haha maybe we;ll see
......later as i'm signing off and said cya later.........
her: ttyllll
me:haha we'll see
her: ha you dick
END

So basically how should I move on from there? Should I wait a few days ot talk to her again?....etc. I'm also assuming its okay for me to pursue her since my friend ended the relationship and not her, and I dont see them gettin back (this seems like the last straw in their whole ordeal)

Peace yo
-Brian

Author:  Scyphe [ Thu Dec 18, 2008 2:09 am ]
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Since I'll be seeing her in a few days could someone throw some quick advice at me?

Author:  Orad [ Thu Dec 18, 2008 7:10 am ]
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hey mate,

From my exp with mates ex's always a bad move.
Ur either gonna be used as a way of gettin back at ur mate.
Ur mate will hate u
and after all this u may not even get a shag outta it

Author:  tipper21 [ Thu Dec 18, 2008 12:52 pm ]
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You might be gettin' in the middle of something you don't want to be in the middle of. It seems a little soon to me, too. He's not gonna like it if you start seeing her at any time though, even if he tells you it's ok, it'll cause tension.

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