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| Author: | TheYesMan [ Sun Dec 14, 2008 7:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | Daytime Approach Help |
I don't know what it is but when I am in any daytime environment and I see a girl I want to approach I tend to feel more approach anxiety than if I were to see that same girl in a bar or club. I have no idea what it is. I've heard before that daytime approaches should be somewhat the same if not easier than nighttime, yet I feel way more self-conscious be it daytime. Is this just another barrier I need to break myself through? Is there any tips or tricks or maybe some techniques that might be able to help me through this? Any advice would be helpful. |
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| Author: | Saiko [ Sun Dec 14, 2008 9:41 am ] |
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Well in daytime the environment tends to be less chaotic and slower, hence you're given more times to think before you acted. The tip I can give you is to just take deep breath and try not to think too much. Remember the 3 second rule and also remember that things are slower during the daytime, so take your time. Good luck _Saiko |
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| Author: | Stygian [ Sun Dec 14, 2008 3:00 pm ] |
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Just push through it. The moment you feel yourself getting AA simply smash yourself therough it and force yourself to approach if necessary. |
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| Author: | Stormy [ Sun Dec 14, 2008 6:39 pm ] |
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Are you going out during the day with the specific intent of approaching? That might be messing you up. I find that it's better if you just work day game into your day-to-day life and approach as opportunities arise. "Sarging" during the day feels creepy, which is why you're getting AA. |
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| Author: | TheYesMan [ Sun Dec 14, 2008 7:31 pm ] |
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Nah Stormy, I feel the same way. Daytime sarging does seem creepy to me. It was just the other day I was at best buy with my older brother running errands and looking at last minute Christmas gifts. I was walking through the dvd isle and saw an HB8 alone and I wanted to make an approach but my mind was drawing a blank. I kind of froze up you know? It's just chances like these that I have trouble working my way into and have more AA. I just don't know how to constantly be in the pick-up mode of thinking and having to switch it on and off really messes me up. It's like if I'm at a bar or club my mind is 100% on trying to pick up women and having a good time. When I'm out during the day I'm just walking around doing my own thing not really paying it any mind. That's my best way of explaining it. I appreciate the feedback though. |
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| Author: | Stormy [ Sun Dec 14, 2008 10:33 pm ] |
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I hear ya. In my journey, I've kind of lost the distinction between "pickup mode" and "normal." They've just blurred together. I feel "normal" most of the time, and I can pick up in that state. I have to crank the energy up for clubs, though. If you want to work on this, a good way to do it would be to go back to basics and just start saying hi to everyone you see during the day, Newbie Mission style. The idea is to make day game normal for you. In fact, go ahead and get up on this: http://www.makeherchaseyou.com/ ^It's a signup for a free ten-day email-based bootcamp from none other than Herbal. I did it a while ago. Shit's tight. |
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