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| Author: | Drayah [ Fri Dec 12, 2008 7:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | A moment of your time, a situation of interest |
Now, first of all I'll try to keep this short. I'd very much appreciate it if you could analyse the things I do wrong and give me a few tips. Thanks in advance Now, let me first tell you that I am quite the AFC. I am currently seventeen years of age, have never been with a girl, never dated, never kissed. I feel very much ashamed in contrast to the rest of the world that I have never done any of that. That is, what I consider to be a challenge. So, about a month ago, I didn't want that anymore. I decided to change my ways and become the man that lingered in the dreams of every hot girl that came across me. Now, changing your perception of youself in your mind is not an easy task, especially the analyctical person I am. At the moment I am mid-way. Now, the situation itself: I am boggled by this girl on my school. She is very enthousiastic, weird by some. Still, she can not seem to leave my mind. At any rate, we talk sometimes and when we do we both go acting weird, which is likely AFC. Sometimes she is the initiator of the weirdness (me being AFC there) and sometimes I am myself. At any rate, we were practicing for a concert and had to close off the room using the keys. The conversation was as follows (she is with a female friend and me): her Here's the keys, go close off the room (giving me an order) me haha, you'd think I'll close off this room for you? (cockyness) her you must, we have urgent business to do me likely not urgent enough to close off the room (I walk away, not accepting the key) her friend We have to close off the room, otherwise they'll be pissed <her I walk away, grab my jacket and walk back towards their position her Now you'll have to bring the keys back, we did the closing me Thought not (she puts the keys on my jacket and walks away, the keys fall to the ground, they both run away quickly) Following that, the woman at the entrance yells at me why are you dropping those keys and I tell her it's all well and good. Next I walk to the back entrance and meet the pair of gals again me Due to your unforgivable actions, you will have to meet with the headmaster soon. (They start to doubt, asking me if I'm stating the truth, turning it into a yes/no yes/no conversation) Next we part our ways An hour later they cycle by in town, I walk alone for I still needed to buy something the target "her" looks always dramatically, jokingly saying to her friend: "Hey look there!" in such a way they don't look at me. I don't give her any look, just a cocky smile and a "goodbye" as they cycle past me. So, what is it? Is she into me? Is she using me as a toy? Did I do good? what could I do better? What should I do in the future with this target? At any rate, thank you very much reading and hoping for full-fletched responses. Thanks in advance Drayah |
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| Author: | PinkTaco [ Sat Dec 13, 2008 6:56 am ] |
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well, my take on the situation is this... it SEEMS there is defenite interest here, she is obviously flirting, trying to test your limits by seeing if you will do anything she says. you did good by saying no, and there really isnt much you could have done(in my opinion) after she dropped the keys and ran. at that point you are forced. where i think you are failing is a means to initiate a conversation. as soon as you said no, you wont take the keys, BAM you should have been into some sort of routine. i woulda suggested a story with DHV(demonstration of higher value) followed by something like the 5 question game to bet on who will lock the area up. she showed interest, but you failed to keep her interested and she ended up running away. IF you get another chance, have some good conversations lined up and begin talking, and KEEP talking, while also keeping her and her friend involved in the conversation. do some kino and all should be gravy. |
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| Author: | Drayah [ Sat Dec 13, 2008 6:48 pm ] |
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I have issues with what to say at the exact moment. How do you guys sort of 'absorb' the techniques? Read them over? Repeat them in your head? How did you learn your routines and which to use when? |
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| Author: | youngcasinova [ Sun Dec 14, 2008 2:58 am ] |
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yeah there is definately interest but you do need to some how dhv keep the conversation going with routines but think of a good dhv story for her personality maybe tell about a time when in band you beat out everyone for a crazy solo and all you buddies were salty but too bad for them cuz your the alpha male and you're the leader of men..the key is to make it not overly impressive or it comes off as bragging. but also kino the whole way whenever possible. routines well this is what I do anytime im browsing forums or watching video I usually copy and paste thing into a word document and everynow and then I go over the entire thing like im doing a quick review for a test before I go in the field if you do that with a routine or two you will get comfortable with at least the main concept which is better than trying to regurgitate the thing word for word. |
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