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Author:  Frenchboy [ Tue Dec 09, 2008 9:02 am ]
Post subject:  Hints for knowing what girls to go for and if they're into u
I am confident in approaching girls and kino but do not know which ones are interested in me as it's not always obvious. And which ones should i go for?

Please comment

Thanks
Author:  Stygian [ Tue Dec 09, 2008 5:34 pm ]
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You go for whatever girls you like most, we cannot dictate what you should like. You see something you like and you go for it, simple as that.

As for knowing when a girl likes you: there are tons of lists of IOIs all over this forum, on Youtube and all over the internet. Simply search for "list of IOIs" on google and you will get a few results regarding knowing when a woman likes you. All you need to do then is be concious of (but do not actively seek) IOIs.
Author:  Stormy [ Tue Dec 09, 2008 5:57 pm ]
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I think you should be escalating and pushing forwards regardless of IOIs. A lot of girls simply won't give them, because they're afraid of expressing too much interest... for pretty much exactly the same reason that you are. They're afraid of getting rejected.

Well, SOMEBODY'S gotta man up when you've got a standoff like that. And you're the man, so...

As for which girls to "go for," yeah, whichever ones you want.

Buuuuuuuuut I think I understand the question you're trying to ask with this.

If you're out one night, and you aren't feeling too picky and just want to pull, look for the following:

1. Girls by themselves or in pairs. If they're out in small groups, they're actively trying to be picked up. ESPECIALLY if they're out by themselves.

2. Girls wearing red. Red is an attention-getting color. Girls know this. They don't just wear red by accident. You know that stereotype about girls taking forever to get dressed, deciding what to wear? If a girl decides to wear red, it's because she's decided, after much deliberation, that she wants attention. She wants to get hit on and picked up. Extra points for short skirts and plunging necklines.

3. Girls doing things to attract attention to themselves. Dancing, WOOOOO-ing, whatever. They're sending out approach invitations to the entire venue. They're stopping just short of hanging a sign around their necks that says "please hit on me."

4. Look for girls that are obviously being hit on. Not with their boyfriends, but being hit on. If you see a mixed 2set (one girl, one guy), pay attention to the GUY'S body language. Is he trying for rapport with this girl? Is he trying to impress her? Is he "just getting to know her?" Is he doing stuff that he wouldn't be doing if he were that girl's boyfriend already? Then he's trying to pick her up and she's unattached, and you can move in and eclipse him with your superior game. And if he's looking like he's not doing too well, you can blow him out just by introducing yourself, a la Josh on Keys to the VIP. Consider that girl a 1set with an obstacle that doesn't mean anything.

5. Tall girls. I'm serious about this. Tall girls don't get hit on. I know. I've heard them complain about it.

6. Tall girl wearing red, by herself, dancing and making noise and causing a ruckus? GO. GOGOGOGOGOGOGO.
Author:  Ray Charles [ Thu Dec 11, 2008 3:34 am ]
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[quote="Stormy"]
1. Girls by themselves or in pairs. If they're out in small groups, they're actively trying to be picked up. ESPECIALLY if they're out by themselves.

2. Girls wearing red. Red is an attention-getting color. Girls know this. They don't just wear red by accident. You know that stereotype about girls taking forever to get dressed, deciding what to wear? If a girl decides to wear red, it's because she's decided, after much deliberation, that she wants attention. She wants to get hit on and picked up. Extra points for short skirts and plunging necklines.

3. Girls doing things to attract attention to themselves. Dancing, WOOOOO-ing, whatever. They're sending out approach invitations to the entire venue. They're stopping just short of hanging a sign around their necks that says "please hit on me."

5. Tall girls. I'm serious about this. Tall girls don't get hit on. I know. I've heard them complain about it.
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I think your a little paranoid my friend. If a girl is dancing in a club it doesnt mean she's doing it to get hit on, how do i know this? Mabye because people go to clubs to dance in the first place -__-'

Also not all girls where red just to get picked up, its not subconsciously planted in their mind that red is a more pleasing colour to the eye. I see more girls in black than red yet the black dressed girls want attention just as badly as any other girl.

Besides, its alot easier to pick up girls in a set rather than one thats by herself or with a friend. How can you isolate a girl whos with one of her friends? Shes not just going to leave her friend sitting there while you lead her off somewhere, it'l make her feel guilty.

Long story short, go for sets (mixed sets preferably) and anyone whose attractive. I normally look for people who would be a challenge just for fun, y'know what i mean frenchy?
Author:  Arrogant [ Thu Dec 11, 2008 5:36 am ]
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You go for whatever girls you like most, we cannot dictate what you should like. You see something you like and you go for it, simple as that.

As for knowing when a girl likes you: there are tons of lists of IOIs all over this forum, on Youtube and all over the internet. Simply search for "list of IOIs" on google and you will get a few results regarding knowing when a woman likes you. All you need to do then is be concious of (but do not actively seek) IOIs.
thats what im saying thats what a caveman would do. and they were alfa as hell.
Author:  boomerboy [ Fri Dec 12, 2008 1:14 am ]
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Along with IOI's, something that has helped me a lot was reading a book called "The definitive book on body language". It has some really useful insight about being able to read how they feel byh paying attention to some really subtle things, and up to this point, it's been nearly ALWAYS right on the money
Author:  [ekkY] [ Fri Dec 12, 2008 4:37 am ]
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i have encountered like your situation before

this is what i will do
pick 2 targets, compare both of them, see the likes and dislikes from both of them, and if 1 fail there always the other target to get.
or if your indecisive just take both and have fun. :P
Author:  Stormy [ Fri Dec 12, 2008 11:41 pm ]
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I think your a little paranoid my friend. If a girl is dancing in a club it doesnt mean she's doing it to get hit on, how do i know this? Mabye because people go to clubs to dance in the first place -__-'
ASD in action!
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Also not all girls where red just to get picked up, its not subconsciously planted in their mind that red is a more pleasing colour to the eye. I see more girls in black than red yet the black dressed girls want attention just as badly as any other girl.
Girls wear red when they're reaching. Like, when they consciously decide, before going out, that they want to get laid. Sure, the girls in black want to get hit on too, but the ones in red are actively on the prowl. Girls know this. This is why they hate on girls wearing red. Especially hot girls wearing red, because they steal all the attention.
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Besides, its alot easier to pick up girls in a set rather than one thats by herself or with a friend. How can you isolate a girl whos with one of her friends? Shes not just going to leave her friend sitting there while you lead her off somewhere, it'l make her feel guilty.
Girls by themselves are wicked easy. They're looking for a party to join and are compliant to damn-near anything. As for a girl with a friend, this is where you bring a wing along, or recruit an insta-wing. Look for a lone dude with decent energy and pull him into your set to keep the obstacle occupied. Or, if you befriend the obstacle well enough, she'll just get out of the way.
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Long story short, go for sets (mixed sets preferably) and anyone whose attractive. I normally look for people who would be a challenge just for fun, y'know what i mean frenchy?
Nothing wrong with big sets or mixed sets, at all. I'm just talking about how to identify girls that are down to fuck that night and aren't particularly shy about letting everyone know it. If there aren't any lonely attractive girls (and really, how often do you see those), then hit up a set.
Author:  suave.yourbestfriend [ Sat Dec 13, 2008 12:14 am ]
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Well put Stormy. Rushy, it'll be another four years till you can legally be in a club. You're wicked good for your age but I'd be careful on calling out people with a little more experience. You made decent points but Stormy is right about what he said. if you start looking into the really small points like what the girl wears, it definitely gives you an edge on the nights you're looking for an easy lay.
Author:  Stormy [ Sat Dec 13, 2008 1:45 am ]
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Well put Stormy. Rushy, it'll be another four years till you can legally be in a club. You're wicked good for your age but I'd be careful on calling out people with a little more experience. You made decent points but Stormy is right about what he said. if you start looking into the really small points like what the girl wears, it definitely gives you an edge on the nights you're looking for an easy lay.
Heh, thanks. I originally heard a lot of that stuff that I posted from a bunch of girls, including a lesbian who has easily the best social calibration I've EVER seen on ANYONE, EVER. This girl can read minds from across rooms just by watching body language.

Then I took what they said and brought it into the field and tested it out for myself, and lo and behold, they were completely right. Except, y'know, for when they weren't. :P But they were right enough for it to be statistically significant.

You know what? I'mma ask some of the chicks up in here about that. I'd like a tenth opinion.

Hell, maybe I'll even abandon direct game for a little while and make an opinion opener out of this. 'cause I want to see how many girls this is true for.
Author:  sorin93 [ Sun Dec 14, 2008 8:59 pm ]
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stormy has some really good points. it really is easier to pickup lone girls. that's a fact.
the theory about girls wearing red to get attention makes sense too. my opinion is that any girl who looks like she took more than 5 minutes to get ready wants guys to notice her and it on her.

i was at a basketball game once and an HB was wearing a thong and a shirt that only came down to her belly. she was definitely not there to watch the game haha
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