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| Author: | TheLibra [ Sun Nov 16, 2008 7:36 pm ] |
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Ok so, i recently bought the the layguide. Seems good so far but a question i have is this. It says worship the 3 second rule. that u must follow it. That u need to show ur interest. But i've heard also that u dont want to let them know u like them. Like u dont want to just seem like an AFC trying to hit on them. I thought that was bad. So how do u approach within 3 seconds and not seem like some AFC? this is confusing to me what do i do? show interest or not? |
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| Author: | Gander [ Sun Nov 16, 2008 7:42 pm ] |
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There needs to be a little push and a little pull. You get her guessing.. does he really like me? this is where CF works really well because you're smiling and so they don't know if you're being serious or you do this with every girl the place. There's a balance. You don't want them to think you're all into them whole heartedly but you want them to know you're interested. |
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| Author: | Alkaline [ Mon Feb 18, 2013 5:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Approaching question |
Do you honestly interpret Tony's advice regarding interest as avoiding contact? Without contact nothing will happen. Period. When you start the 3 second rule you need to initiate a conversation, not a come-on. When you talk to a guy you don't know in less that 3 seconds it doesn't mean your coming on to him. Just initiate a stimulating conversation, it's that easy. In fact these items are not mutually exclusive, meaning you can even initiate a conversation and show disinterest simultaneously-this is performed by using Neg Hits. Ie you could walk up to a girl with long painted nails and say "are those nails real?" or after she starts talking say "gross you just spat on my face!" I love the Layguide. It was my first exposure to the seduction community and interest. |
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| Author: | Donston [ Mon Feb 18, 2013 5:27 am ] |
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Why don't you try them both? See which one works for you. You will find the answer through taking actions not through the internet and over analyzing. Selfishly use girls as your guinea pigs ... they're their for you to experiment on. Then post your findings and to tell us what happened .... |
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| Author: | wingintyme [ Mon Feb 18, 2013 7:33 am ] |
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Quote: Ok so, i recently bought the the layguide. Seems good so far but a question i have is this. It says worship the 3 second rule. that u must follow it. That u need to show ur interest. But i've heard also that u dont want to let them know u like them. Like u dont want to just seem like an AFC trying to hit on them. I thought that was bad. So how do u approach within 3 seconds and not seem like some AFC? this is confusing to me what do i do? show interest or not?
There's always going to be different books giving different philosophies. The 3 second rule is valid b/c if you set back and watch and/ or fantasize about a girl before you speak or over -think what you are going to say or how the conversation may go, lets just say for 2 minutes, you've already got your mind going in a bad direction b/c you are over thinking the situation. You are going to make it tougher on yourself. Most men come across to average hot woman like they like them so when a man comes a long who doesn't act like they are the hottest thing ever, it can get in the woman's head. They may feel there is some interest but you don't have to make it so obvious you like them. |
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| Author: | ulloa [ Mon Feb 18, 2013 8:13 am ] |
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| Author: | Krista Steenbergen [ Mon Feb 18, 2013 12:44 pm ] |
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Quote: Why don't you try them both? See which one works for you. You will find the answer through taking actions not through the internet and over analyzing.
Haha I really like this! YES use every experience with a woman for your own personal growth! Why depend on the result with one woman, if you can seduce so many? If you seduce her 'the right way' you know you will add value to her life anyway, so you shouldn't feel guilty about 'using' her for your own benefit. Woman are there for you to enjoy...!
Selfishly use girls as your guinea pigs ... they're their for you to experiment on. Then post your findings and to tell us what happened .... |
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| Author: | ian_mezza [ Mon Feb 18, 2013 11:52 pm ] |
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I used the 3 second rule back in the day. Now I use the 1 second rule. |
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