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| Author: | JasonLloyd [ Sun Nov 02, 2008 6:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | i blow hot and cold |
i was giving real good game to a girl and then she told me im not unattractive but i blow hot n cold all the time. i was trying to do push pull with her but dont know where it went wrong. she has low self esteem, so what do i do if im in that kind of situation again? shred |
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| Author: | vitaminc [ Sun Nov 02, 2008 7:00 pm ] |
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what exactly do you mean by blowing hot and cold? i'd probably think that with a girl with low self esteem, you dont want to push her as much because it could actually hurt her. so maybe bigger IOI's and smaller IODs. logic would suggest that a girl who thinks little of herself will be attracted to the guy who makes her feel better about herself... but as we know, girls arent that logical so it should be interesting to see what the other guys think about this... |
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| Author: | JasonLloyd [ Sun Nov 02, 2008 7:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | hot n cold |
basically, some times she thinks im lovely, other times she thinks im gaming her. but she thinks gaming is being insensitive, so basically im nice and then other times im not |
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| Author: | Rye Lee [ Sun Nov 02, 2008 7:30 pm ] |
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Stop being incongruent. You're changing how you act from one situation to another and that's why she reacts differently. Stop being manipulative in your efforts to attract her and just be the nice cool guy that you are that she likes and responds well to. |
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| Author: | vitaminc [ Sun Nov 02, 2008 7:34 pm ] |
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^^^^ good advice. |
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