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Author:  Luca_J [ Sat Nov 01, 2008 12:01 pm ]
Post subject:  How to deal with this one?
Okay, been really close with this girl for about 2 1/2 months now, when I say close I mean near relationship close, we kiss thats about it, not really had the chance to go any further.

last 2 weeks we havent spoken in person and I text her last saturday and she said she'd text me sunday, well she didnt, this girl is really a difficult one and hard work, so last night she texts me out the blue saying "hi ya, what you up to gorgeous? x" I text back "just out, u? x" so she text back sayin "cool, just at the pub, if your going to be rude i won't talk to you x" so i didnt text back.

I want to move on, but i still have feelings for her, i feel like saying to her that i need to talk to her and saying that over the last 2 weeks its given me time to think and i dont know what i want anymore, its not her shes a really nice girl, its me and i dont think i can give her what she wants. Im hoping that this will bring out the side of her that shows she wants me and she'll chase me if shes interested, but this could go one of two ways...

what do you guys think? I need to text her by 6 at least.

Thanks :)
Author:  vitaminc [ Sat Nov 01, 2008 1:59 pm ]
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she texts you out of the blue (IOI) and calls you gorgeous (IOI) and you gave her a very short reply which she construed as you being rude.
her reply sounds like a shit test but she could've also been genuinely annoyed with you for being so blunt, in which case not replying would just have pissed her off even further.

you say you've been really close so i'll assume that you know her well enough to know that she's not annoyed and that it was a shit test though, in which case not replying was the right move in my book.

rejecting her will not make her chase you dude. rejection is painful and will most likely chase her away. that "it's not you, it's me" bullshit wont work. thats what an AFC would do.

instead, game her. show her that you are a high value guy with other girls after you and her jealousy will make her want to compete against those girls to try win you. if you've know each other for 2 months then it's safe to assume that you have enough comfort but not enough attraction to seal it, so work on that. how? DHV DHV DHV.
Author:  Luca_J [ Sat Nov 01, 2008 2:39 pm ]
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Thanks, good man :)

Yeah i wasnt going to fall into her frame control by her pretending shes annoyed :P

any examples of how I can DHV?

Totti;)
Author:  vitaminc [ Sat Nov 01, 2008 2:57 pm ]
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best bet with a girl you've know that long would be to let her know that you dont need her. so let her see you having fun without her, have her come shopping with you (when you've also invited another girl to get jealousy going) and have awesome stories to tell her about what you've been up to.
flip her attraction switches with things like preselection, leader of men, protector of loved ones and all that other crap included in your stories and then give her the best kiss of her life.
dont blatantly tell her that you have other girls after you, rather let her see it or allude to it in a story about a night out where you met some girls who you're going paintballing with or whatever. also, it wont hurt to have a hair band or something like that lying somewhere where she can see it...

she'll be chasing your ass in no time if you do this right.
oh, and kino the shit out of her.
Author:  Luca_J [ Sat Nov 01, 2008 6:06 pm ]
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haha cheers buddy :)
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