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| Author: | rmoller [ Fri Oct 31, 2008 6:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | hi, need help |
I really dig a girl (fuck the one-itis bullshit, I want to be ill if it is for this one, and I've kissed like several other girls since I met her and non of these feel as good as hers!)... And we've dated before (when she had a BF), we kissed every time, she felt guilty every time. Last week she broke up with her BF and last monday we had another date, went really well, with the usual kisses in the end... The day after she texted with I like you, and the day after that with 'I love you too'(never told I loved her, just that I truly like her)... Today we had another date and we both were a bit tired, after a while I said that I truly liked her and today she was like: "I like you too, but in a different way, I think." I'm really sweet to her, maybe to sweet, so that is kinda my problem I think, but I don't know how I can stop now without getting a reaction like: is there something wrong, or something... I know that if I give her to much attention I'll drive her away, but I don't want to loose her either (in the situation we are now in she can be picked up by some kind of PUA or her ex and then I won't make a chance for sure), next week we are going to the cinema... I usually text her every evening at 10:30 pm, and well, during the day another several times.... Well, I just need advice to get the 'in a different way' gone... I think I truly love her..... Thx in advance |
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| Author: | Plethora [ Fri Oct 31, 2008 8:34 pm ] |
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Yikes, that's all pretty damn AFC. When you are scared of losing something, you probably will. By texting her repeatedly and telling her constantly how much you like her, you are showing neediness and beta qualities. You are conveying to her that you are not a high value male, which is likely why her attraction towards you has fallen. You have to internalize that you are the prize, and she is the lucky one who is along for the ride. |
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| Author: | rmoller [ Sat Nov 01, 2008 7:19 am ] |
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I know I started of wrong, getting girls in bars is easy, but every time I like a girl alot I starts doing this... I know that I have to act like I'm the prize, but I don't know how to change my 'strategy' in this point of the relationship... |
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