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Author:  Luca_J [ Fri Oct 31, 2008 1:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Good Looking PUA
Hi guys, I'm a model and often getting complimented on my looks, god I even get girls staring at me from across the room even so much as turning round on the bus as it goes by!

but this isn't a rant on how good looking I'm supposed to be but the fact that I dont understand why do women start hot on me and finish cold?

I'm tall and fairly well built also.

does this mean I have attraction and go straight onto comfort?

its so frustrating sometimes, I can always get make-outs but after that things usually go cold :S

Thanks :)
Author:  Stems [ Fri Oct 31, 2008 2:20 pm ]
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mate i know what your saying...
i've found at times if a guy stands out cos of his looks women will often see him as a 'trophy'... they will even often joke and make bets with their friends on who can get that 'good looking' guy... then once u go for it, game over...
Its an egotistic victory to them...
Im keen to see what the experts say on this matter...
but i think if u know a girl is attracted to u based primarily on ur looks, then live up to the image... u are the selector
qualify her, screen her, even tease her that she is hitting on u etc... make her work and dont give urself away to easily... then if u do kiss her say something like "wow ur good at this... (her: good at what?)... well i've known u for x mins and u have already got me kissing u..."
Essentially, your in A3

By no means field tested, just thoughts
Author:  baller21 [ Fri Oct 31, 2008 3:04 pm ]
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looks can help you. but i'd say it's only about 10%-15% of your game. If have absolutly no game and a total afc, she will see that and get turned off. For example when you see a movie and the trailer looks good, but the actual movie's plot, acting, storyline, ect sucked you would just leave and get a refund. In other words some women will judge a book by it's cover, but in the long run, it's whats inside the book that will have her hooked.
hope this helped
Author:  edu [ Fri Oct 31, 2008 4:05 pm ]
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Quote:
looks can help you. but i'd say it's only about 10%-15% of your game. If have absolutly no game and a total afc, she will see that and get turned off. For example when you see a movie and the trailer looks good, but the actual movie's plot, acting, storyline, ect sucked you would just leave and get a refund. In other words some women will judge a book by it's cover, but in the long run, it's whats inside the book that will have her hooked.
hope this helped
Sweet analogy ...
Author:  Enigma037 [ Fri Oct 31, 2008 8:31 pm ]
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If women are already attracted to you, you should try more direct game. Instead of beating around the bush and creating attraction, just be open. Your looks have already created the attraction, making it that much easier for you. In your case, you will have success opening a girl and then taking her somewhere else. For instance, say "hey, i noticed you looking over here. I'm actually about to go across the street to another bar. Come join me." Direct openers like that will work like magic for you. Don't let your looks be a disadvantage. You have a good tool so make the most of it. If you have any other questions, don't hesitate to ask.
Author:  V1V [ Fri Oct 31, 2008 9:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Good Looking PUA
Quote:
Hi guys, I'm a model and often getting complimented on my looks, god I even get girls staring at me from across the room even so much as turning round on the bus as it goes by!

but this isn't a rant on how good looking I'm supposed to be but the fact that I dont understand why do women start hot on me and finish cold?

I'm tall and fairly well built also.

does this mean I have attraction and go straight onto comfort?

its so frustrating sometimes, I can always get make-outs but after that things usually go cold :S

Thanks :)
WITHOUT getting into technicalities - girls attraction for you consists of 70-80% survival value (your personality) and 30-20% replication (how good looking you are). concentrate on your social skills and how your demonstrate ur value.
Author:  manman [ Sat Nov 01, 2008 11:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Hey totti
I totally understand where your coming from, i was blessed with the looks as well, its almost scary. But heres our thing. The INSTANT a girl (quality girl) notices, or feels you dont have the confidence to back up your looks... DONE. you are done. ITS a cold turn-off to them subconsciously and somewhat consciously. It makes them never want to talk to you again. This can be fixed. your problem is, you have no confidence with women. You dont know what to expect. SO heres your fixer. FORGET about your looks....Find or make up about 2 or 3 good openers, or do what i do (instantly tease them or neg them. which in our case will work like a charm) (instant love, i swear.) But, you need to approach alot. Mystery can input on how much. Thing is, once you get over that, you tease and pick-on them. be on top! like their your little sis... Shit, you can tease a girl the instant you see her and b successful, IF youve done your 20 or so practice approaches. Imean i've had a fine girl take her hair down, AND start smiling and playing with her hair..ONE LINE I USED WAS "you dont get out much do you?" Be the alpha male....read up on the techniques. Once you have practice wich will, lead to skill, added with your looks, the game will be too easy. Just dont rely on your looks brotha. Take my word. It will not fail you my friend.
Author:  Kalel [ Sun Nov 02, 2008 12:11 am ]
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I think you still need to build attraction, but you probably don't have to DHV as much and you probably don't need to neg. Negs and DHVing are designed to place you on an even value level as a more attractive women, this probably doesn't apply to you. You would probably do well learning some amog body language and frame control. You should check out "How to become an Alpha Male" by John Alexander. That way your personality will match your appearance.
Author:  Luca_J [ Sun Nov 02, 2008 12:12 am ]
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Ahhh thanks guys :)

well confidence is one thing thats not a problem haha you could almost say im bordering arrogance ;)

alpha male thing is another thing I am getting sorted with...

and negging comes naturally..

I need to work on some inner game stuff i think.

thanks fellas :D
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