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| Author: | JohnChap [ Thu Oct 30, 2008 11:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | RE: Taking girlfriend for granted, bad idea ? |
I know exactly what you mean. It's tough, I know. I've been there with a few women who I've seduced into falling in love with me. What happens is we men get tire after a while. We don't mean to; We don't get the same feeling we did in the beginning of the fling ... we men like the pursue. We like to win the woman's affections, but after we have accomplished this; once we have her; once we have won her; once we have overcome her; we become bored. We get bored. It becomes routine and we men were not built for routine. We we're made to overcome obstacles and conquer. They, on the other hand, fall even deeper in love. A woman spends 90% of the time thinking about her man, whereas, a man only spends 10%, if that ... This is critical becuase, YES, we can lose them; we can lose the woman who has been good to us. And believe me when I tell you this, you will pay for it. You will pay for it with a dry-spell. That is, you'll spend the next several months, if not, years, ALONE. We don't want this to happen. Absolutely NOT!!! We are better off allowing this operate conditioning (the consequence of losing someone amazing and potentially spending the next several months ALONE) take it's course; we're better off fearing such a consequence and give her the time she demands; she desires; she loves! We are better off giving her what she wants. How? Take a step back. YOU need space. You're not appreciating her like you used to. She is TOO available. But it's not your fault. We are all like this; all us men, that is. Women are entirely different creatures so don't confuse what she wants with what YOU want. You'll almost always get it wrong if you do. By taking a step back, you are allowing yourself; you are allowing your mind to MISS her. Once this void (you not having what she has and can give you: Love, sex, affection, company etc) begins to form, you'll begin to appreciate her again. This is what you want. By creating this space, you'll fuel your fire for her again...not like you had it in the beginning but real close! We begin to appreciate that which we don't have any longer. So before this amazing and beautiful creature leaves you, I suggest you "leave" her first by disappearing for one week exactly. That will begin the process. Soon, you'll WANT; DESIRE; YEARN for her once again. This desire will DRIVE all your actions thereafter. You're actions will give you the outcome that's in your best interest ...remaining with this exceptional creature you call your girlfriend. |
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| Author: | paladien [ Thu Oct 30, 2008 11:54 pm ] |
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hey that smell, is that you ? i think so man  cuz your the shit  good post !! Im lucky, my girlfriend is on a 1.5 week holiday I started missing her already a little but i did do some sarging tho and this makes me desire her even more, cuz its really hard to get over those barriers of strange women 
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| Author: | JohnChap [ Fri Oct 31, 2008 12:04 am ] |
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Fortune favors the bold ... you must be deserving of such fortune. Good luck! |
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