right seems to make sense thanks yall I need to hook up my gramma lol
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| Author: | Synckpua [ Fri Oct 24, 2008 2:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | this is something that f***in gets on my nerves |
ok I mean I'm texting the gurl negging and building attraction ...everything is going A okay u know then like yesterday me:i was like whats ur saturday look like her:I work on sat me: wat time to what?cuz i gotta do somethin on sat any way? and bam no reply back I mean what the f**k man I mean females have some rude behaviors I mean I'm takin the time to text u and u don't text back and plus u give me major IOI's i mean whats the deal for real... ok o this is the same night right different story text dis other gurl I know I went on a texting frenzy any way we were texting for a minute I made jokes she joked back and very sexually might i add me: did u kno 93 percent of women masterbuate in the shower joke...she laughed amazingly hard and olus before she told me she was bout to go to the shower her:she was like lmao I'm not 1 of them my legs r too weak!jk so from here i was building sexual tension then I did the cube a mini version at least very modified and it came well then one of the last messages i tell her for the last question i will tell her later what it meant.... her:why?is it something dirty ? and by this time i knew she was all hot and heated hormones flying because of how her textual conversation was changing me: then i told her wat it meant i said: it describes the last time u got all wet and excited or the last time u had and orgasm? after that no response....so I'm confused and very annoyed give me some thoughts on this texting mayhem ...I mean with the last response to last gurl i might have left the question mark maybe thats what threw her off but idk... but why is it they just out of the blue stop texting?? |
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| Author: | mPUA Savior [ Fri Oct 24, 2008 3:12 pm ] |
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girl one, may not have been in the mood think bout it if you were having a bad day or just didnt feel like talking, well of course your gonna be out of the mood to talk.....you ever been bummed out??? i know i have and i just felt like doing nothing.... or maybe she doesnt like you, or doesnt want to hang out with you, or has plans already.... .. it could be anyone of those scenarios.... girl 2.....well you built sexual tension and everything and you left her HANGING on a thought what could he mean.....well then you told her and well her sexual tension went away cause she now knows the anwser or what you said just grossed her out (texts have the problem of now distinguishing humor, as well) or maybe your excessive texting finally got annoying to her and lastly stop texting so much, a few on occasion is alright |
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| Author: | Synckpua [ Fri Oct 24, 2008 3:59 pm ] |
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awesome ok i can see how she might have not been in the mood...and ur right i did kill the tension with girl 2 but is there a way to get back in good without any weirdness?? |
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| Author: | NonStopReaper [ Fri Oct 24, 2008 5:27 pm ] |
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you should of waited to tell her the last of your mini cube test. you fell in when you said you'll tell her later and then she beg and you did. on girl 2 when she text you "i'm not one of them" you should of said " i didnt say you were" dont give in to easly push and pull and dont text so much lol like Savior said. I'm not much into text gaming. I find it pretty annyoing when people text me. I live in Japan where its 90% texting -_- soo you can see how much it annyoys me here lol! |
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| Author: | vitaminc [ Sat Oct 25, 2008 5:10 am ] |
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i'm with mPUA. however... a thing to keep in mind though is your use of language in your texts. punctuation in texts are pretty powerful, not only does it show that you have a decent sense of control over your language, but it also adds to the climaxes and jokes... if done right. you can have awesome game and you can fuck it all up by having shitty grammar, especially if you're in an environment where you are expected to be fairly well educated. do not ever say "i was like" or anything of that sort. you sound like a fucking teen on some crappy sit-com. fix that shit. if nothing else, you'll at least sound remotely intelligent. as a rule of thumb, try not to ask a girl when she's busy. your "me:i was like whats ur saturday look like" followed with "me: wat time to what?cuz i gotta do somethin on sat any way?" just stinks of neediness. instead try "me:i was like whats ur saturday look like" followed with "ahh, working girl" or something like that. btw - its "anyway", not "any way". and no, i'm not english. |
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| Author: | Synckpua [ Sat Oct 25, 2008 6:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | ya |
right seems to make sense thanks yall I need to hook up my gramma lol
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| Author: | ConvAZN [ Sat Oct 25, 2008 7:35 am ] |
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First text, you pushed, she ran away. You appeared too desperate, IMO. The fact that she told you she was busy Saturday without specifying the time should've clued you she was trying to get rid of you politely. Instead of responding with something that would've DHV you, you came off as desperate and pushy. Second text, unlike guys, women are far more sensual. Rather than the description you used, something along the lines of, "Do you remember your first kiss? The softness of the lips, how scared it felt but how exciting it was at the same time? Wasn't it great?" By doing that, you would've anchored yourself to not only a fond memory (if it was a fond memory) but also the positive and pleasant emotions of that time as well. You f'ed in trying to force her to remember her 'dirty and slut-like' reactions to sex. I doubt she was hot and heavy, probably more creeped out and bothered. Third, if you let something so trivial as these things bother you, you're going to crash and burn every time something happens that peeves you. How would you had reacted had it been a face to face and these girls blew you off in the middle of a club? In a bar? Or on a date? |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Sat Oct 25, 2008 8:47 am ] |
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I don't get it . . . what was the point of the text in the first place? Why even bother raising her "sexual temperature" through text? Did you want to share a text sex encounter? Even if you succeeded, her temperature would have gone back to 0 the next time you met her anyways. Get her face to face. To do this, you have to gain her trust. You have to show that you're sexual . . . but also that you have normal "feelings" as well. You haven't done this. You seem to enjoy ending your text exchanges with a sex-related cymbal crashers but you need to stop this now. See how you're all nuts over her NOT returning your text to you? Well, you need to figure out how to switch this around. The good thing about texting is that you can think before you write so at all costs, think before you press send. You need to go back to the drawing board and figure out what you're trying to accomplish before you write. And when you write, you want to use proactive, confident words. Quote: me:i was like whats ur saturday look like
You're too busy for her but you want to interrogate her for her schedule? WTF? I'm a guy and this sounds creepy even to me. . . her:I work on sat me: wat time to what?cuz i gotta do somethin on sat any way? So how about this instead? . . me:Any plans on Sat? her:I work on sat me: That's too bad, _____, _______ and I are heading over to _____. her: Really? Have fun. me: (NOTHING, YOU DON'T WRITE HER BACK) The joke thing? After she types the LOL, you've accomplished your goal. So now you type: me: (NOTHING, YOU DON'T WRITE HER BACK) Get it? Put HER in the shoes your wearing now. Get her to think, "Is it me? Why won't he text back? . . . Should I wait a few minutes and then type, what's up?'" Let's try a few more. After blah, blah, blah. . . Her: You are crazy! Me: (___________________) After blah, blah, blah . . Her: That sounds so cool! Me: (___________________) Add the "cocky" to your "funny", |
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| Author: | Reo [ Sat Oct 25, 2008 4:40 pm ] |
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I dont know how long you've been talking to either girl i can only assume its been for a while. Only person you have to blame is YOURSELF. You never Initially let these girls know day 1 what you really want from them which is to hook up with them. You hide it from them now you're angry they're not acting the way you want them to. Honesty that tension you "thought" you had was never there to begin with. The first girl is clearly not interested in you at all. The Second girl, yes you were sexual with the whole "girls in shower thing," but it had nothing to do with you and her being sexual together. what you said was more funny haha talk about nothing she wasn't taking you serious. The whole Cube thing was just more pointless talk that had nothing to do with you and her together...... Then at the end you said, "I just wanted to know when you got wet..." It was like ok I'm trying to be serious now. you sound like a wimp saying it. she thinking, "Ok why is this guy who I thought was my nice-friend is all of a sudden trying to be sexual with me I'm not into him like that i'll just be silent maybe he'll stop." Hope that makes sense to you screwed up from the beginning when you first met these girls? |
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