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Author:  grice121 [ Tue Oct 21, 2008 3:44 am ]
Post subject:  Building sexual attraction

how can i build sexual attraction while at school. or anywhere for that matter.. i cant seem to find it anywhere.. please help me out.

Author:  Plethora [ Tue Oct 21, 2008 3:51 am ]
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Is that a joke? It's everywhere! More than half of everything taught is designed to raise her sexual attraction to you.

DHVing, negging, body language, confidence, voice tone, grooming, kino, cocky+funny, disqualifiers, IOI's, SOIs, roll-offs, jealousy plot lines, peacocking, NLP tactics, etc...

Author:  Roy Hobbs [ Tue Oct 21, 2008 4:10 am ]
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Isolating your TOI will help. Try to get them to come over to your house after school and hang out.

It's a bit harder at school (especially High School) because girls will always care about what their friends (and non-friends) think about her situation. Girls are willing to dump you because their friends don't approve. That's an example of High School behavior.

Because of this, girls will be less open to mutual affection in public on high school campus. This sucks for guys who are like me, because I have a rather unappologetic style with esculation. So the question then becomes how to esculate sexual tension without putting social pressure on the TOI.

Reading palms are a start. Implement a lot of kino, but make it seem organic. You don't want to have robotic movements or be stiff and then suddenly start touching, because they'll realize you're purposely applying kino, which works against you. It has to seem natural.

Putting your arm around her (like she's your little sister who you're trying to protect) is usually acceptable in high school and won't neccissarly imply interest. I did it to female friends all the time, when I had no interest at all.

To create sexual tension, you must get the idea of sex in her mind and get her to associate that with you. You could do that through kino, talking about sex, or simply talking about sexual things.

TIP: Don't be a class clown or somebody who just likes to be funny. They're fun to be around, but are not sexually attractive at all to women. Being laid back and calm will make you seem more sexual than somebody who runs around trying to grab attention with jokes.

Try being more laid back. Talk slower (with power) and move slower. Good body language can be sexually attractive with women.
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Is that a joke? It's everywhere! More than half of everything taught is designed to raise her sexual attraction to you.
He's talking about sexual esculation, not the basics of attraction.

Author:  grice121 [ Tue Oct 21, 2008 4:26 am ]
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thank you! that reply really did help. i will be using that tomorrow for sure.. but what if i have two college classes with her? should i isolate her by saying when your done with your test we're getting coffee? or something of that nature. and while getting coffee do the whole reading palms thing.. then on our way to our next class just friendly put my arm around her?? is that a good idea..

Author:  Plethora [ Tue Oct 21, 2008 4:54 am ]
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He's talking about sexual esculation, not the basics of attraction.
Really?
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how can i build sexual attraction while at school. or anywhere for that matter..
hmmm...

To me this question sounds like "how can I make money?" or "how can I be slim and healthy?"

The question is just so general, and the answer is near-infinite in length.

Author:  Roy Hobbs [ Tue Oct 21, 2008 4:55 am ]
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i will be using that tomorrow for sure.. but what if i have two college classes with her? should i isolate her by saying when your done with your test we're getting coffee? or something of that nature. and while getting coffee do the whole reading palms thing.. then on our way to our next class just friendly put my arm around her?? is that a good idea..
Being in college will actually shift things in your favor, grice. There isn't as much social pressure for her to react to you a certain way. You can create sexual tension in public because it isn't a big deal here. With that said, it never hurts to bring her back to your place or jump to another place with her. That's great. It's just a matter of whether she's attracted enough.

So I'm going to type this under the impression that you have already established some attraction and want to take it to the next level.

First of all, apply more kino. Just touch her, but naturally. For example, groping her breast? Not natural. She sees you're doing it on purpose. Putting your hand on her shoulder while asking a question? Natural. Look up basic kino. I don't feel like typing a book on it, but kino is what seperates an fclose from being put in the friendzone.

Reading palms is a great form of kino. Search around for that as well. There's probably a ton of posts on it in these forums.

I wouldn't advise putting your arm around her just from hanging out. In this situation, I think it'd be more effective (and less creepy) if you do something like jokingly pushing her while you walk together.

There's got to be more on sexual esculation on these forums. Just search for it.

Author:  KL70 [ Sat Oct 25, 2008 6:04 am ]
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Good topic

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