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Author:  Alphie [ Tue Sep 02, 2008 11:18 pm ]
Post subject:  HB9 from work, help with first date.
To anyone who can help.

2 weeks ago i saw this very beautiful girl at work. I saw her looking at me in a way that would tell me that she is intrested in me, she even came especially came to my till, when the others had much smaller ques.

She is quite a high profile girl, she is in her final year at Cambridge University, Studying Law.
Since my first ineraction with her we have only shared one or two small conversations even though she did ask me a few questions.
The other day i asked her out on a date she said, "i would like that". she then left me her number. she then said we should meet up when she gets back from holiday" (she is going on holiday in two weeks time) also i know its not good to let the HB say "when we should go out". :oops:


I was wondering weather to arrange a date before she goes away, would that be a good idea?
Also i haven't set a date, should i call her and set a day?
Also do you think she actually likes me?
And is it a good idea to ask a girl out for a date that you have never really spoke to?

Please help guys :D
Author:  Alex88 [ Tue Sep 02, 2008 11:36 pm ]
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I think you should definatly go for the date your overthinking the situation and are perhaps making slight excuses because you feel anxious about the fear of an awkward silence or a bad experience arising on the date ( Thats just my own meandering thought so appologies if im way off:)) but in truth its a feeling i have had many times before. The simple side is you can't give in to anxiety if you feel that is what is preventing you this will only increas the fear for the next date and dimminish your already attained confidence . second you have to look at it form the point of view that this is a constant learning curve and that you can only learn from this date . And last of all you say shes a HB9 you obviously wan to go for it so just think what ever may prevent you it wont be as bad as the regret of saying damn what would have happend .


Ok there are some rambling thoughts for you i hope in some way they can help .


Alex :)
Author:  Alphie [ Tue Sep 02, 2008 11:52 pm ]
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Thank-you very much for the reply.

Well it took alot of guts to go up to her in the first place, it was basically a cold approach, but she said she would like to, but i didnt like the way she said "she is going on holiday in two weeks, we should go after that... should i try and arrange something before she goes away.
The problem i have with women is i get too keen, i really need to not care at all... i know that, you know that, we all know that but its difficult not to.

I am very confident with women, but i dont use it in the correct way... but im learning!!!
Author:  Alphie [ Wed Sep 03, 2008 12:08 am ]
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Thank-you very much for the reply.

Well it took alot of guts to go up to her in the first place, it was basically a cold approach, but she said she would like to, but i didnt like the way she said "she is going on holiday in two weeks, we should go after that... should i try and arrange something before she goes away.
The problem i have with women is i get too keen, i really need to not care at all... i know that, you know that, we all know that but its difficult not to.

I am very confident with women, but i dont use it in the correct way... but im learning!!!
Author:  Alex88 [ Wed Sep 03, 2008 8:30 am ]
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Well if she suggested going out after perhaps you should wait. If she made the point to say wait until then maybe she's busy the week before she goes away, but you do have good reason to speculate in why she said this . Again try not to over think it if you do wait until after let me no how it goes . Im of today for 2 weeks thru europe so i wanna no how this pans out when i return . Best of luck .

oh and the attachment thing is normall for some guys its a trait we develope over years of interaction wih women even from a very younng age , dont worry about it most girls love it in the long run .


Alex
Author:  Alphie [ Wed Sep 03, 2008 12:13 pm ]
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hmmm well would any of you guys recommend i just call her like just for a small convo??
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