Hi guys, i am proably not going to post many threads because this site is geared for you guys and not chicks but i thought i'd try to help out in the area of AA which seems to be a sticking point for a lot of guys when they first start.....first step is the hardest kinda thing
Now for my epic post....If you are just starting and want to try out a few routines and openers to get a covo going i would try it on a girl who you would consider easy. lower your standards a bit or alot, maybe a 4 5 or 6 or maybe lower. We are not all bad and 9 times outta ten you will get a response. When your confidence builds and you conquer the basics you can move on up. Dont go fo the girls who look socially inept as you wont learn anything from that and they will probably be 2 shy to really respond and might just give a quick reply and look awkward which makes you feel awkward. We females have just as many problems as you do!
When you approach we are thinking - oh gosh what does he want (you route your question/ time constraint), we ease off because we have realised its probably something we can deal with...and oh ok he has said something interesting, gee i wonder what more i can learn from that/ that was funny..i haven't laughed all day and feel good now....so on and so on.
The best advise i can probably give is think of a time when someone you have never met before starts talking to you and has made you feel calm, relaxed and you have had a good time (with a bit of witty banter thrown in). Even if it was a brief 30 secs do the same thing.
Personally as a girl if the guy can withstand some witty banter i rate him pretty well. Example i had this week...i have seen this guy i used to do karate with a few years back around my work alot lately. We pass say hello or give a acknowledged nod and thats about it...but the other day i happened to say " gee i see you everywhere lately" and he responded with " nah i'm just stalking you" (cheeky smily)...my response was " well now your secret is out". And that was it. Probably not much but i find it pretty funny. i guess if i was a guy and you dont see the chick for a while and she happens to ask why you haven't been around, say you are now stalking the chick over in finance or something (insert cheeky grin). It ties in with the original story and banter you 2 have had and creates a connection.
hope that helps. Go get em tiger