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Author:  shazza [ Tue Aug 26, 2008 10:45 am ]
Post subject:  A question from a girl
hey guys i have been reading these posts for a while now and have looked into the 'pick-up' community ever since i read "the Game". I have to say i am quite impressed with all the effort you put in :D in particular i really like Mysterys work... It really is about smoothing out human interaction and adding a nice twist to attract people...well in your case the ladies.
Now comes the embarrasing question :oops: .... If a girl was to use any of these tactics on a guy, within reason, would the whole process work in reverse?
Thanks..hope you guys respond and if you have any questions for a girl feel free to ask away :wink:
Author:  Stetson [ Tue Aug 26, 2008 12:07 pm ]
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Uh, no. And the reason is that you don't have to.

Why put an effort to something like that when all you need is a nice and funny personality and some good looks.
Author:  jurupa [ Tue Aug 26, 2008 12:57 pm ]
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Now comes the embarrasing question :oops: .... If a girl was to use any of these tactics on a guy, within reason, would the whole process work in reverse?
Nope. For a girl you won't need to use the whole PUA "process", but more bits and pieces of it. As you are not facing things like bitch shields has guys for the most part don't have such defenses when it comes to girls. You could almost say that a fair amount of PUAing is already built into you and you just need to refine it.

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Uh, no. And the reason is that you don't have to.

Why put an effort to something like that when all you need is a nice and funny personality and some good looks.
She needs to, to get the bigger fish that are out there. Most guys will take any girl that approaches them. But if she approaches a guy that gets hit on daily having PUA skills on her side will give her the advantage in getting him.
Author:  jsquared [ Tue Aug 26, 2008 1:19 pm ]
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The things for girls that would be used to pickup men are much more simple, because as a whole men are less complicated and women are also internally programmed for courtship.

Key Points:

1. Looks are a major thing. Its a sad thing to say. However, you can do things to enhance yourself. Wear as little makeup as possible. Get a tan. Where clothing that is flamboyant and has flare. Bright colors that captivate the attention of those around you.

2. Humor - be funny yourself, and be able to handle sarcasm. To take that a step farther be sarcastic yourself. It puts guys off the rocker, because it makes you a challenge.

3. Personality - intellectual and spontaneous. Be up for anything. Have a strong intellectual standpoint on your views.

The above are the main concepts I see of women who attract men. Looks, are what gains a man's attention. Your humor is what will captivate and hold it. The personality is a reflection of your humor. If you are witty then a guy will think you are smart and funny.

Hope that helps
Author:  madals [ Tue Aug 26, 2008 3:40 pm ]
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If u were to open me, push pull is how you should do it.
Unless the girl who opens me is a HB9+ or does something to keep me interested enough to get my brain thinking "wow, she is special" i will just think they are to forward and make it to easy for me. I dont like easy.

Push pull will work, it will give the guy the knowlage that you like him, but will also tell him that you arnt going to go with him unless he works for it.

Madals
Author:  Chief [ Tue Aug 26, 2008 3:58 pm ]
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Specific tactics will not be necessary, but the broad stroke concepts of pickup will work, such as push/pull, teasing playfully, cocky & funny, kino escalation, playing "hard to get," etc... but most girls do all that shit naturally anyway because they are the socially superior sex :P
Author:  Rye Lee [ Tue Aug 26, 2008 6:40 pm ]
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Specific tactics will not be necessary, but the broad stroke concepts of pickup will work, such as push/pull, teasing playfully, cocky & funny, kino escalation, playing "hard to get," etc... but most girls do all that shit naturally anyway because they are the socially superior sex :P
I agree with Chief, most of this stuff comes natural to women, as you may have noticed. Much of it comes natural to some men as well, but as we know, many of us weren't born with these skills and the same is true of women. I used to expect women to just "get it" and was frustrated when they complained of not knowing how to get guys, cause it seemed so easy to me for them to do. No longer though.

If you want to improve your skills, I suggest you don't look at the specific tactics, but instead examine the broader principles of social dynamics. Heck, that's where most of PUA is going these days anyways, especially with it becoming more mainstream. Personal betterment is the key imo. Social dynamics and a positive outlook will take you a long way.
Author:  shazza [ Wed Aug 27, 2008 8:15 am ]
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Thanks guys for all your responses, they were very helpful and i really appreciate it :D
where would i find more information on the "push pull" method you mentioned???
keep up the good work :wink:
Author:  Chief [ Wed Aug 27, 2008 3:33 pm ]
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where would i find more information on the "push pull" method you mentioned???
push/pull involves anything that shows interest followed by disinterest or vice versa... or both interest and disinterest at the same time.

Examples:
>Saying "You are such a little shit. I love you!"
>Touching a lot for one minute then ignoring the next minute.
>Saying "You are such a little brat. I hate you," while pulling her in with your arm and giving her a one-arm hug.

Girls just call this "sending mixed signals." It works wonders.
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