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Author:  Luca_J [ Mon Aug 25, 2008 1:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Being Alpha Male
I want to become an alpha male, can anyone put it in the simplest of steps or however on how to become one,, what do i need to do?

Totti;; 8)
Author:  jsquared [ Mon Aug 25, 2008 2:03 pm ]
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Lifestyle. You need to build a lifestyle. All of the things you learn in PUA is about reinventing your life. Not fabricating a new persona, but that you become an Alpha Male, and you aren't just acting like one.

If you are new to the game, you are in what I call the Trial and Error phase. You just need to go out, and talk to girls. Canned material can help you hear in gaining confidence. Think of canned material as training wheels. Once you are successful take them off and try new things.

For now, just go out and be social. That is the first step.
Author:  SouthernSeducer [ Tue Aug 26, 2008 5:27 am ]
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Be a leader.

Become good/an expert at something. Teach people this.

Meet lots and lots of people. Connect them to each other.

Be cool. Be calm.

All an alpha male is is someone that plans and does things for himself and others. Takes charge, etc.

Very simple, lol. ;)
Author:  rgman268 [ Tue Aug 26, 2008 2:09 pm ]
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I don't think it is as simple as Southern Seducer is making out to be.
To become an alpha male you an entire frame of mind change, that needs you to change as a person.
You should get the Attraction Code by Vin di Carlowhich explains it really well.
Author:  crazy1320 [ Tue Aug 26, 2008 3:46 pm ]
Post subject:  quick tip
heres how i get my temporary alpha thing going

i do this in two ways
if you have any good looking mates take them to a club and dance seductivly with them

or do something crazy (like me) some thing your specific race would not have like (i am mixed race but have white skin but have black peoples hair so i have afro hair but i tie it back then i go to a primarily white people club and they are all amazed and want to be near yyou)

stuff like this gives you the feeling you are god which is good because i met some crack heads on the way home and just felt im god and i had a "nice/weird" chat with them

so yeah give it a go
Author:  SouthernSeducer [ Wed Sep 03, 2008 12:22 pm ]
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Gee, if you are wanting to be alpha JUST to get the girl, you miss the whole fucking point. An alpha male is a lifestyle of leadership and direction. Turning it on/off is counterproductive. It's a life commitment full of responsibility and shit. Why do you think there are so few alpha males in the world? Because it's tough? Damn right it is. But only if you aren't willing to work hard and want to take the easy route.

The side benefits are many women. But that's not why alpha males are alpha. They are alpha because they are required to be.

Get yourself in a position where you have to be a leader. And it should start to come naturally to you.

The steps to take are simple. Making the decision, though, THAT's the hard part.

I still stand by my position, that it's easy to put yourself in the position to become an alpha male lol. Taking responsibility constantly though, having to be center of attention, the ones people turn to for advice/approval, meetings, social events, keeping up appearances, keeping the peace, etc, that's the tough/tricky part.
Author:  SierraPapa [ Wed Sep 03, 2008 3:30 pm ]
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you know what, i was watching one tree hill today, and lucas the main character plays the, 'go with the flow but has goals in his life part...' he also is the one who trys to bring people together hold it all up and people open to him. He is a nice guy but at the same time this is alpha. he supports his social circle.

dont hate me because i watched one tree hill, lol

but yeh he does seem to have many alpha qualitys in my opinion, you don't have to be a jerk... infact being a jerk is almost the opposite.

as on of the guys on here said, vin di carlo's attraction code, says it all

im reading it, it's quite the work of art.

keep spreading the love...

~sierra~
Author:  Cohath [ Wed Sep 03, 2008 4:43 pm ]
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Here's the quickest way to becoming Alpha. Guaranteed. Watch "Top Gun" with Tom Cruise. Become Maverick. Just pay special attention to his attitude and the way he holds himself. Watch a few times if you have to, but that's seriously the quickest way. Look at the forums more, there are some really in-depth posts about the subject. Shalom.
Author:  HotIce [ Wed Sep 03, 2008 5:17 pm ]
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ARRRRRGGGGHHHH!!!!

ANOTHER Alpha Male question!
I can't believe I hear this stuff so much. LISTEN UP EVERYONE. The whole idea of Alpha Males isn't some kind of "type" that all good PUA's fit into.

The Alpha Male is a theoretical MODEL (just like MM, Speed Seduction or ANY seduction method). The "Alpha male" in the sense of being the "dominant" male like you see with animals, simply isn't realistic with humans. There are MANY guys out there who mack women with methods that are not necessarily tough-guy or Caveman or "Alpha" or whatever you want to call it.


BASICALLY, the Alpha Male is an ideal. That's it. Everyone has a different interpretation of that ideal. For some, it's super adventurous, for others it's super suave and sophisticated, for others it's brute gangsta badassitude. Your version of "alpha", whoever you are, will be shaped by your preferences.

At the very core of it, the ALPHA lifestyle has 3 parts:


1. What's EXCITING about your life? (BESIDES picking up girls)

2. Where are you headed? (your GOALS)

3. How do you handle yourself? (Inner game, body language, having fearlessness with no regrets)


Now for all this stuff, you have to craft a New life (just like Mystery says).

You have to do what YOU like. Learn a new skill. Get fit. Take martial arts or salsa dancing. Visit local points of interest. Get to know the attractions and venues in your town. Make new friends every day so that you "know people". Become someone you are comfortable with. Do it for your own pleasure, not to impress girls. Then that whole "be yourself" cherade actually makes more sense.

Now if you ALREADY have a cool, interesting life, all you have to work on is your attitude, how you handle yourself, etc. I like to call this "uncovering" your true self, since just "being yourself" is circular logic that confuses lots of guys.

Overall though, Alpha males are NOT the "Leader of the pack" all the time. Sometimes they just have to be a member in good standing, and the rest of it is INDIVIDUAL PERSONALITY, PREFERENCES, and DIRECTION. Don't listen to guys who say you need to be a rich businessman or politician to have "Alpha" personality. You only need to be dominant in YOUR reality to be an authority in hers.

Of course, "Alpha Male" is just a behavioral framework. You need to put flesh on those bones by learning a bit of charisma and NLP, and developing a playful vibe.

And I agree with Sierra, the Attraction Code by Vin DiCarlo has GREAT information on how to develop that charisma and those "Alpha" traits.
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