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Read Mystery Method or The Game
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The key is putting yourself at a higher social value by portraying no interest (a friendly conversation that you are dominating) initially and slowly rewarding her Indicators of Interest with ones of your own. I can't really explain the whole deal here but just talk to her. If she's with a guy it doesn't really matter. Act like the shit, the life of the party, the alpha male, and go talk to her while she's talking to him. If you can dominate the conversation he'll walk away (I don't mean interrupting or yelling or anything, I mean true confidence).

It's not something you're likely to pick up in a short enough time for 1 girl, but if you do pick up these abilities I'm sure that 1 girl will seem like a blur.

I've only been at it maybe a month or so and I've seen huge results so far.

And very importantly, if u never talk to her, dont just walk up to her and ask for her number.

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And very importantly, if u never talk to her, dont just walk up to her and ask for her number.

B-radd is right. If this girl is into you, which seems so...the last thing you want to do is scare her off by asking for her number first thing. And I know that bc I am a girl and girls want to be desired, but give us too much attention and we get bored with you. Sounds like you could work on your approach. Come up with something crazy or off the wall. Make it funny but short and she will create an opening for you.

Well no its been around four days of just staring and staring back
I dont get it
I hear girls like it when you approach them and ask for their number.
Idk girls are confusing
School just started this week

Either show up early to class or approach her at her locker. Both are good because it gives you enough time to be cute and charming, get the number, and make her curious about you. And plus, your seating is whack. Make sure you smile and get her attention by locking eyes and then once you do that is your invitation over. Once you get her number text her in the middle of class. That text idea def would not put you in the friends zone! haha It sounds like you get to the point without being too explicit, and it sounds like you were just passing on a chain text which is innocent enough. But be carefully, if she is very straight edge she might be take offense to something like that.

Author:	Skaterforlife [ Thu Aug 07, 2008 11:12 pm ]
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Okay my friend in class has been telling me that this girl has been looking at me and I know too because I always catch her staring at me, but I cant get the balls to talk to her Looks dont have to do with it, I usually hear girls wispering oh hes so cute when im doing presentations. Can someone help me...we I think about approaching her for number I get nervous. today I was like 5 feet away from her at the hall but some other guy started talking to her so I gave up pathetic i know. This wasnt the first I tried to ask someone for their number. the first time which was like 5 months was a wreck I was talking to her looking down but I dont do that nomore so I guess thats an improvement please help guys! =[

Author:	all_star [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 5:47 am ]
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Your getting nervous becaouse shes hot, our nature is just built that way. The thing that helps is to talking to uglier girls in whoom your not interested and are not afraid off, try it on the street or in a club or whatever. You will get used to contact with girls and maybe you wil understand that its just in your head. Or theres allways the possibility to die alone

Author:	MTJ [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 6:26 am ]
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Read Mystery Method or The Game summed up: The key is putting yourself at a higher social value by portraying no interest (a friendly conversation that you are dominating) initially and slowly rewarding her Indicators of Interest with ones of your own. I can't really explain the whole deal here but just talk to her. If she's with a guy it doesn't really matter. Act like the shit, the life of the party, the alpha male, and go talk to her while she's talking to him. If you can dominate the conversation he'll walk away (I don't mean interrupting or yelling or anything, I mean true confidence). It's not something you're likely to pick up in a short enough time for 1 girl, but if you do pick up these abilities I'm sure that 1 girl will seem like a blur. I've only been at it maybe a month or so and I've seen huge results so far.

Author:	B-radd [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 6:46 am ]
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Good advice MTJ. It also sound slike you have bad approach anxiety. Get over your AA and it will be a breeze. And very importantly, if u never talk to her, dont just walk up to her and ask for her number. Start talking to her everytime you see her to build comfort and rapport. Then when you are more laid back around her ask for her number. Try not to be nervous, the most that can go wrong is a conversation ended short.

Author:	Dare [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 1:58 pm ]
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I agree with what the other posters said. You need to be indirect with your approach. Just ask her opinion or a question that you really could've asked anyone she just "happened" to be the one who asked. Make sure you give a context for asking her the question though... if you just ask someone "Who lies more men or women?" They might look at you strangely... but if you give it a context first "My friend and I have been arguing all week, ever since our buddie's girlfriend lied to him and cheated on him...Who lies more men or women?" That also will probably interest them in the story of your buddy and his cheating GF.

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Author:	Neo-the one [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 5:36 pm ]
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Quote: Read Mystery Method or The Game summed up: The key is putting yourself at a higher social value by portraying no interest (a friendly conversation that you are dominating) initially and slowly rewarding her Indicators of Interest with ones of your own. I can't really explain the whole deal here but just talk to her. If she's with a guy it doesn't really matter. Act like the shit, the life of the party, the alpha male, and go talk to her while she's talking to him. If you can dominate the conversation he'll walk away (I don't mean interrupting or yelling or anything, I mean true confidence). It's not something you're likely to pick up in a short enough time for 1 girl, but if you do pick up these abilities I'm sure that 1 girl will seem like a blur. I've only been at it maybe a month or so and I've seen huge results so far. A little cocky/funny couldn't hurt, either.

Author:	Skaterforlife [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 10:28 pm ]
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Okay today I caught her staring at me again and I smiled and waved and she did too but she got a pass to leave class so I couldnt go up to her lol Guess im gonna have to wait til monday :/

Author:	Bonita [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 10:50 pm ]
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Quote: And very importantly, if u never talk to her, dont just walk up to her and ask for her number. B-radd is right. If this girl is into you, which seems so...the last thing you want to do is scare her off by asking for her number first thing. And I know that bc I am a girl and girls want to be desired, but give us too much attention and we get bored with you. Sounds like you could work on your approach. Come up with something crazy or off the wall. Make it funny but short and she will create an opening for you.

Author:	Skaterforlife [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 11:31 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: And very importantly, if u never talk to her, dont just walk up to her and ask for her number. B-radd is right. If this girl is into you, which seems so...the last thing you want to do is scare her off by asking for her number first thing. And I know that bc I am a girl and girls want to be desired, but give us too much attention and we get bored with you. Sounds like you could work on your approach. Come up with something crazy or off the wall. Make it funny but short and she will create an opening for you. Well no its been around four days of just staring and staring back I dont get it I hear girls like it when you approach them and ask for their number. Idk girls are confusing School just started this week

Author:	Reo [ Sat Aug 09, 2008 12:01 am ]
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Read this i-have-no-fear-of-approach-vt25782.html I think you'll be just fine Good luck

Author:	Bonita [ Sat Aug 09, 2008 1:02 am ]
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Quote: Well no its been around four days of just staring and staring back I dont get it I hear girls like it when you approach them and ask for their number. Idk girls are confusing School just started this week You're right, girls do want you to ask them for their number. But you have to have some kind of opener. Not just "Can I have your number." If you guys have been exchanging looks for a few days then def make it a point to get her number when you talk with her. I just wouldn't make that your opening line. If you really can't think of anything to open with and want to get to the point of getting her nunmber you could say: YOU: "I'm not sure if you know this, but I have a secret talent for guessing numbers. Pick a number 1 to 10" (After her response make a guess--if you are wrong...) YOU: "Ah man, usually im better at guessing phone numbers...write yours down so you don't cheat, then I will guess and see if I am right" Hate to burst your bubble but you will prob guess wrong, but then hers is already written down to give to you. How convenient If by some miricale you guess right, well then you have something to talk about now dont you...and you have her number

Author:	Skaterforlife [ Sat Aug 09, 2008 4:51 am ]
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Okay cool cool What should I do when I see her again? The classes seating chart is really dumb, two rows of guys on one side and two rows of girls on the other side of the room Hey if I get her number I planning on sending her this text Today is F.U.C.K day friends you can keep. I just F.U.C.K ED you. Send this to all the friends you wanna F.U.C.K lol Would that text kinda put me in the friends zone?????

Author:	Bonita [ Sat Aug 09, 2008 5:48 pm ]
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Either show up early to class or approach her at her locker. Both are good because it gives you enough time to be cute and charming, get the number, and make her curious about you. And plus, your seating is whack. Make sure you smile and get her attention by locking eyes and then once you do that is your invitation over. Once you get her number text her in the middle of class. That text idea def would not put you in the friends zone! haha It sounds like you get to the point without being too explicit, and it sounds like you were just passing on a chain text which is innocent enough. But be carefully, if she is very straight edge she might be take offense to something like that.

Author:	Skaterforlife [ Sun Aug 10, 2008 9:19 pm ]
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Quote: Either show up early to class or approach her at her locker. Both are good because it gives you enough time to be cute and charming, get the number, and make her curious about you. And plus, your seating is whack. Make sure you smile and get her attention by locking eyes and then once you do that is your invitation over. Once you get her number text her in the middle of class. That text idea def would not put you in the friends zone! haha It sounds like you get to the point without being too explicit, and it sounds like you were just passing on a chain text which is innocent enough. But be carefully, if she is very straight edge she might be take offense to something like that. Okay i'll do that on monday thanks a lot! and everyone else too!

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Author:	Nightfox [ Sun Aug 10, 2008 11:11 pm ]
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Bonita21 is right, but I would stay away from the F.U.C.K.-text. It's just.. weird. Try to make up a conspiracy instead. Text her in the middle of class. If your teacher is strange or acting funny, make up a short, charming or funny theory about it and send it to her. Something like "Have you ever notice how Mr. <blablabla> always <blablabla>? This one day <somethingsomething> happened and" You get the picture. Try to be funny and original.