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| Author: | RobLyo [ Tue Jul 29, 2008 5:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | AFC Mistake |
Okay so I was at a party this past weekend and I got to talk to this girl (I had met her a few times before, but we had never really talked before) and she was giving me all sorts of IOIs and I end up scoring a kiss at the end of the night from her(She made the move). Anyways, I forgot to get her number and I figured I screwed up all the attraction and rapport that was built between us since I had no way to contact her. But anyways, I end up getting a text from her a couple nights later, apparently she had gotten my number from one of my friends, and the entire text was basically her qualifying herself to me. Then today at work I got another text from her about how she wanted to hang out with me tonight...Anyways, here is where my problem is: I told her I was down to hang out (AFC mistake?) and she ends up texting me back telling me how she cant hang out anymore. Did I do the right thing by trying to hang out with her today (She is obviously attracted and interested in me) or should I have played "hard to get/3 day rule" and told her I was busy tonight? Should I wait for her to text/call me back and try to hang out with me or should I take the initiative and make the move instead? I could just be over complicating things, but I would like to hear other peoples input on the matter. |
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| Author: | Chief [ Tue Jul 29, 2008 8:01 am ] |
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I'd run if I were you. To me it sounds like she's trying to relationship-trap you. No, "relationship-trap" is not a pickup term, but I think it perfectly describes what's going on right now. It sounds like she's trying to make you her bitch boyfriend (who she's going to cheat on plentifully). |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Tue Jul 29, 2008 11:21 am ] |
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Quote: I'd run if I were you. I agree on the running. Not sure about the relationship trap thing. Tho I can see her using the guy for her emotional needs when the guys she is screwing are not giving her any emotional support.
To me it sounds like she's trying to relationship-trap you. No, "relationship-trap" is not a pickup term, but I think it perfectly describes what's going on right now. It sounds like she's trying to make you her bitch boyfriend (who she's going to cheat on plentifully). |
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