It's only a big deal if you make it one. Your age doesn't really bother her- think about it. If it did, she wouldn't still be talking to you... she is testing your frame to see if it bothers you, that's all. She doesn't wanna be with a guy who doubts himself, so she has to test you to see what kind of guy you are. If she doesn't mind the age difference and you play it off like it doesn't bother you either, she won't have any reason to have an issue with it. I've only ever been with one older woman and she was fucking HOT. She brought up the age gap, so I just said the first thing that came to mind:
"It only bothers me if it bothers you... and seeing as you're still here talking to me, I think we're pretty clear on that."
She smiled, I smiled. She practically fucking raped me and I god damn liked it.
