PUA Forum :: My friends disrespect 'Game' What to do ?

Wel the thing is they have been really good friends, it was today when it happened and they just seemed to turn their opinions from positive (or at least accepting) to very negative ?
Should i not talk about game to them anymore ?
The thing is that i always try to help them and offer tips, routines, openers etc ! So its not as if ive done anything wrong ?
I think it will be best if i dont mention my game to them again !

I think that you are better to not give them any advice. Just become better with women. Become the member of the group that gets the girls. Like one of the posts above says, they will start asking for advice when they are ready for it.

Author:	Casanova1 [ Thu Jun 12, 2008 12:45 pm ]
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Until recently my friends had been fairly 'accepting' of me doing game, but this past they have seemed to turn on me, but not personally, they have been slating the game and the techniques i know and trust, I have not had a sudden increase in success, i still do fairly well and im improving with each approach I have just felt that by been very insulting about the game is a very sudden opinion change ? I just want to know if anyone else had had a simalar experience with their friends after they told them and showed them their game ! Is it jealously ?

Author:	Fin [ Thu Jun 12, 2008 12:47 pm ]
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Could be, or they may just be those kind of crap friends who are more "mates" than friends, as in they'll rip the fuck out of you if they have a chance.. ..but other than that their fine to talk too. My advice go to a different group of friends, it'll show them that you don't take shit.

Author:	Casanova1 [ Thu Jun 12, 2008 1:04 pm ]
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Wel the thing is they have been really good friends, it was today when it happened and they just seemed to turn their opinions from positive (or at least accepting) to very negative ? Should i not talk about game to them anymore ? The thing is that i always try to help them and offer tips, routines, openers etc ! So its not as if ive done anything wrong ? I think it will be best if i dont mention my game to them again !

Author:	Fin [ Thu Jun 12, 2008 1:13 pm ]
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Quote: Wel the thing is they have been really good friends, it was today when it happened and they just seemed to turn their opinions from positive (or at least accepting) to very negative ? Should i not talk about game to them anymore ? The thing is that i always try to help them and offer tips, routines, openers etc ! So its not as if ive done anything wrong ? I think it will be best if i dont mention my game to them again ! If thats the situation... ..yes just play it down, it should blow over soon. If they bash it just seem totaly unphased.

Author:	Orann [ Thu Jun 12, 2008 1:18 pm ]
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Quote: Wel the thing is they have been really good friends, it was today when it happened and they just seemed to turn their opinions from positive (or at least accepting) to very negative ? Should i not talk about game to them anymore ? The thing is that i always try to help them and offer tips, routines, openers etc ! So its not as if ive done anything wrong ? I think it will be best if i dont mention my game to them again ! I had a similar situation at one pint. The best idea is to play down the effectivness of game, say it's just some tips that seem to help (if you have to talk about it at all). Try not to give them advice until you prove yourself to them and they start Asking for it.

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Author:	Chief [ Thu Jun 12, 2008 1:41 pm ]
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You have already been warned by guru after guru in this community that, if you get into the pickup scene, you will lose your old friends. You will have to let them go. You will have to reassess your values and realign yourself to these new values as you CHANGE. ...and you will replace them with new friends that are on the same path. People fear and resist change. That's why, tragically, most guys in this community don't put themselves through REAL change to get REAL success. That's why only a small percentage of the population in the world possesses the vast majority of this world's riches. It takes a rare, special, and strong motivation to face your fears and CHANGE. That's why your friends are hating on you. They see you changing. They think they are losing you and they are uncomfortable with the fact that something isn't exactly the way it was yesterday. Nothing can be gained without sacrifice. This entire community is about change, and that's why we were underground for the majority of the time it has existed. People look down on change. It's natural. It's homeostasis.

Author:	Clancey [ Thu Jun 12, 2008 4:42 pm ]
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I think that you are better to not give them any advice. Just become better with women. Become the member of the group that gets the girls. Like one of the posts above says, they will start asking for advice when they are ready for it.

Author:	Rye Lee [ Thu Jun 12, 2008 9:55 pm ]
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Quote: I think that you are better to not give them any advice. Just become better with women. Become the member of the group that gets the girls. Like one of the posts above says, they will start asking for advice when they are ready for it. Bingo.

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