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Author:  Smarts [ Thu Jun 12, 2008 7:14 am ]
Post subject:  Opener wanted from Master PUA (or whatever I can get)

First off let me descibe the girl that has me in this state: She is about 5-7, short but very cute with one of the best smiles I have ever seen, amazing stawberry blonde hair, forgot I color, slendor yet has an hour glass figure. Works out (I think) and has a body of a jogger. She appears to be 18 or 19 (I am 19).

I really want a good opener to start a good conversation with her and possibly number close. However, here is why I need a Master PUA's help: I see her in the grocery store all the time, but unfortunately I work at the grocery store. So basically she might see me as hired guns (do females see guys as that?).

I just got back from college and have seen her twice. The first time I simply said, "Hello" and smiled at her. She responded by saying "hi" and gave me an amazing smile. The next time I saw her was the very next day. I was going to try and talk to her, but i noticed she was there with her dad and I didnt want to create an akward situation. However, she saw me and gave me another beautiful smile as our eyes met and I returned the smile without saying anything.

I dont know if she smiles at everyone and is just nice in general or if she is directing it specifically at me.

Some openers I have thought of are:
1.) "You look familiar did u go to (my high school)"- I think this would be good I just dont think it would be very productive or get her number.

2.)"Wow, your in her as much as me. You should get a job her"- Just recently thought of this one. I think is sort of corny and falls in line with not being productive.

I REALLY NEED HELP!!!

THANK YOU ALL!!!

Author:  JSmooth [ Thu Jun 12, 2008 8:14 pm ]
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You're not viewed as a hired gun. Mystery defines hired guns as women hired for their beauty to attract customer's. Typically, these people are in social jobs like bars, waitress, go-go dancers, or shot girls. You working at the grocery store, no offense, doesn't count.

I would not use an indirect opener in this situation. Since you are in more of a day game element your best bet is to use a direct opener. She's going to be going about her daily routine and have stuff to do, and you're going to be at work without 30 minutes to spend being indirect and acting disinterested before comfort phases.

My advice to you is the next time you see her go in direct and I'd use something like, "I've seen you around, you look nice, are you friendly?" or whatever you prefer just be direct, and confident in your approach.

During day game when you approach you're going to be judged on more superficial type things so try to be prepared and look your best until then. Also, the main thing is going to be your body language and your speech. You need to appear confident, and calm when you approach her. Imagine as if you're talking to your best friend, and its perfectly normal for you to be talking to her.

Author:  Smarts [ Fri Jun 13, 2008 8:01 am ]
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You're not viewed as a hired gun. Mystery defines hired guns as women hired for their beauty to attract customer's. Typically, these people are in social jobs like bars, waitress, go-go dancers, or shot girls. You working at the grocery store, no offense, doesn't count.

I would not use an indirect opener in this situation. Since you are in more of a day game element your best bet is to use a direct opener. She's going to be going about her daily routine and have stuff to do, and you're going to be at work without 30 minutes to spend being indirect and acting disinterested before comfort phases.

My advice to you is the next time you see her go in direct and I'd use something like, "I've seen you around, you look nice, are you friendly?" or whatever you prefer just be direct, and confident in your approach.

During day game when you approach you're going to be judged on more superficial type things so try to be prepared and look your best until then. Also, the main thing is going to be your body language and your speech. You need to appear confident, and calm when you approach her. Imagine as if you're talking to your best friend, and its perfectly normal for you to be talking to her.
Thank you very much for your help!! I will probably try that line out next time I see her. If I get her number I will mail you a 12 pack of your favorite beer lol.

Author:  JSmooth [ Fri Jun 13, 2008 12:35 pm ]
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Thank you very much for your help!! I will probably try that line out next time I see her. If I get her number I will mail you a 12 pack of your favorite beer lol.
Not necessary, although a 12 pack of Redbull is always appreciated!!! Just kidding man, if you get her, knowing that is enough.

Author:  Chief [ Sat Jun 14, 2008 9:20 am ]
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Look up "oneitis."

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