PUA Forum :: Uber Newb, where to begin?

I want to meet new people and actually feel that I still have my game on. I'm 23 year college student at Columbia and it sucks being a hermit and not having the guts to go to a girl and strike a conversation.

What's my goal? =) Get my game on again and to know that I still got it. right now confidence is shot so.. its really tough especially after being broken up by an ex in a ltr of 5 years.

How do I keep a phone convo goin anyway... I've been talking to a friend who I have an interest on and she pops me with like 3 word answers and she seems so shy. I'm not sure how to break the ice. also I'm acting a little weird when i talk to her.

Author:	JadedStryfe [ Wed May 21, 2008 7:33 am ]
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Just spent past couple of hours reading a lot of post. In term of Chonological order, what do I do, what should I buy, read and watch? Read Watch Practice Implement What should I concentrate on first? I'm gonan try to get my confidence up by just randomly talking to people just to get the AA out which I have really badly SPAM. Is there anything I should work on before this. Coming from a LTRelationship, I have no idea what to do at all.

Author:	Ghulias [ Wed May 21, 2008 7:46 am ]
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What's your goal?

Author:	Medic [ Wed May 21, 2008 8:09 am ]
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Definitely start approaching people and talking to them, about anything at all. You, at first, don't even need to approach them with the goal of picking them up. Talk to every one. Get out of the house, don't just become a keyboard jockey. Read the book Mystery Method: How To Get Beautiful Women Into Bed. A lot of what's spoken about here, and in the community, refers back to that book and the principles presented in the book. Listen to Hypnotica, anything and everything from him. Start there. Work on building your confidence. Work on your inner game, your framework. That's got to be tight before you have anything worthwhile on the outside.

Author:	MattJacks [ Wed May 21, 2008 2:14 pm ]
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read practice read/watch practice practice read... u get the drift. theres no point in reading allot without trying it out

Author:	JadedStryfe [ Wed May 21, 2008 2:52 pm ]
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I want to meet new people and actually feel that I still have my game on. I'm 23 year college student at Columbia and it sucks being a hermit and not having the guts to go to a girl and strike a conversation. What's my goal? =) Get my game on again and to know that I still got it. right now confidence is shot so.. its really tough especially after being broken up by an ex in a ltr of 5 years. How do I keep a phone convo goin anyway... I've been talking to a friend who I have an interest on and she pops me with like 3 word answers and she seems so shy. I'm not sure how to break the ice. also I'm acting a little weird when i talk to her.

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Author:	Medic [ Wed May 21, 2008 3:43 pm ]
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Quote: I want to meet new people and actually feel that I still have my game on. I'm 23 year college student at Columbia and it sucks being a hermit and not having the guts to go to a girl and strike a conversation. Step 1.= Get the F out of the dorm room. Today is beautiful, go outside. Do something in Riverside Park. Just get out, start making small talk with guys, girls, rickety old men, fragile old ladies, go pet a few dogs. Do it, just go f-ing do it. Quote: What's my goal? =) Get my game on again and to know that I still got it. right now confidence is shot so.. its really tough especially after being broken up by an ex in a ltr of 5 years. I understand and respect that your confidence is shot. That will take some time to repair. I found that getting out there and opening sets, regardless of the outcome, was my biggest confidence builder. You, beyond purging your mind of your ex, is to stop using your breakup as a crutch to as why you are holding yourself back. It's not a reason, it's an excuse. Buck up, you can do this, I promise you. Quote: How do I keep a phone convo goin anyway... I've been talking to a friend who I have an interest on and she pops me with like 3 word answers and she seems so shy. I'm not sure how to break the ice. also I'm acting a little weird when i talk to her. Run the conversation. Talk about things that interest you. If you are really into quantum physics, try to make her think that quantum physics is the best thing since Diet Peach Snapple. If you are truly interested in what you're talking about, you will speak with authority, excitement, and passion. Women love passion, it shows that you are not totally wrapped up in yourself, you can be involved in something bigger then yourself. Get on it.

Author:	JadedStryfe [ Wed May 21, 2008 11:42 pm ]
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I knew her back in college in another university. We didnt talk a lot considering back then she had a bf. I'm just trying to becareful because I don't want to seem like I'm coming on too fast or something. I just called her twice this week, since she's always busy and I asked her to go out grab a cofee or something next week in which she said yes. I wanna start charmin her but I don't want to come off as fast or agressive or anything like that. Again this is due to lack of experience for a long time now. Mind you though, I havent seen her in 2 years... and she seems hesitant in the phone lol. I dont want to scare her so Im tryint o becareful.

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