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Author:  itakenocrud [ Wed May 21, 2008 4:40 am ]
Post subject:  So I met this chick @ a convention...
I really need some help with this HB7/8, cuz I am worried I am loosing interested (and fast). Here is the story:

Specifically, we met @ a rave party @ the convention and we exchanged contact info(myspace names). it was her idea to do it. I shot her a message on myspace yesterday and I got a response, but I don't know where to take it from there. She lives kinda far from me, so I would really like to get her chat screen name maybe cell number.

Here is our conversation log so far:
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Me:
So, did you get home ok?? I had to drive back @ 4:30 am :(

that con was pretty amazing, but it like destroyed me lol...

did you have fun, despite the fact the dj sucked?

Her:
i had an alright time, it might be my last con though, i did enjoy the club room, it was like a second home!
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Ne1 got any tips for keeping her interested and maybe get her aim screen name?
Author:  Bidyah [ Wed May 21, 2008 3:46 pm ]
Post subject: 
lol yea, ask for her screen name... :lol: cool trick i know

Besides, if she lives far, why would you care?
Author:  monday [ Wed May 21, 2008 4:54 pm ]
Post subject:  ouch
on re-opening,
don't ask questions that can have a yes or no answer.

i hope that you have something to tease her on,

also i hope that you are not trying to create plans after you have met her.


put it this way 'contact details' are simply contact detials not some magical items that will get you in her pants :P.


next time before leaving have a reason to contact her, maybe to help to go shoes shopping -they never say no- or simply becasue she loved your company so much to hang out again.







as far as this situation goes chances are you have already lost her, but don't give up. you need to build attraction , maybe try the you are gonna go out shoe shopping line but don't want a repeat of last time, at this point you would phase in a past cocky/funny shopping routine. -contact me if you need one- don't invite her at first, later you can ask for advice.





My best advice would be to make her a good friend, so get fluff talking and drop the 'i think you'd make a great friend. i'm keeping you on my friends list' line,


Your response,

here is what i would say, -don't C&P this though-

'alright time, you had an amazing time it's not everyday you meat someone as modest and fun as me. you know i that I'm never happy with just plain 'alright' only the best for me, after all we've been though i think i'm going to have file for a divorce with you. I'm keeping the TV and the Dogs, nippy and rex, (-NB you could even make one the dogs name hers) you can have the couch. '
p.s. i know its hard for you, but its the best thing for us, we'd never get along. it's gonna take a lot to bring me back.




of course i'm assuming you have some rapport with her and attraction.


all the best , and male me on how you do or if you need anymore advice,
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