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| Author: | bboy_spy [ Wed Apr 30, 2008 8:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | AIM Chat. How did i do? NEED RESPONSES QUICK! |
ok guys so i got a mini date with her set up at the end so it was sucessful, any suggestions as to what i should have done. Or since whats done is done, what should i do during the date to escalate things? Thanks guys!!!!!! SORRY FOR THE LENGTH Me: (6:31:21 PM): hey girl whats shakin Her: (6:31:41 PM): hey who is this Me: (6:31:45 PM): Me: (6:31:51 PM): guess Her: (6:32:05 PM): DANNY V. however u spell ur last name lol Me: (6:32:09 PM): damnit... Me: (6:32:11 PM): cheater Me: (6:32:12 PM): lol Her: (6:32:36 PM): nope im just smart Me: (6:32:45 PM): haha Me: (6:32:47 PM): really? Me: (6:32:56 PM): wouldnt have guess Me: (6:32:58 PM): d Me: (6:33:49 PM): so how are things? Her: (6:34:07 PM): haha yea pretty good im just sooo over school i want it to be summer already...what about you Her: (6:34:09 PM): how was prom??? Me: (6:34:15 PM): amen to that Me: (6:34:22 PM): prom was insane Me: (6:34:23 PM): Me: (6:34:31 PM): hella tight Me: (6:34:42 PM): lots of good ppl... lots of good food... lots of good music Her: (6:34:43 PM): reallly??? tell me about it Me: (6:34:47 PM): hmm Me: (6:34:49 PM): alright Her: (6:34:52 PM): i bet u danced in teh middle lol Me: (6:34:58 PM): ah you know me dontcha Me: (6:34:59 PM): lol Me: (6:35:09 PM): hell yeah its my senior prom Her: (6:35:18 PM): funnn Me: (6:35:20 PM): so we ate... Her: (6:35:25 PM): did u hook up with ur date Me: (6:35:34 PM): mmm... Me: (6:35:40 PM): is this a trick question? Her: (6:35:44 PM): nope Me: (6:36:01 PM): i hold women to a high standard Her: (6:36:21 PM): lol what is that supposed to mean Me: (6:36:28 PM): well u said u were smart Me: (6:36:33 PM): do what you do Me: (6:36:34 PM): =) Her: (6:36:42 PM): yes??? Me: (6:36:46 PM): maybe... Her: (6:36:56 PM): haha o gosh fine dont tell me Me: (6:37:00 PM): hahaha Me: (6:37:10 PM): i love how frusterated ur getting Me: (6:37:13 PM): its cute Me: (6:37:15 PM): Her: (6:37:26 PM): haha im assuming you did Her: (6:37:30 PM): since you wont flat out tell me Me: (6:37:47 PM): ^^ Me: (6:37:54 PM): nah Me: (6:38:12 PM): the girl i was with was cute Me: (6:38:15 PM): but not really my style Me: (6:38:23 PM): hence the "open relationship" Me: (6:38:23 PM): lol Her: (6:38:32 PM): ooo gotchya Her: (6:38:38 PM): well whats ur type Me: (6:38:45 PM): mmm Me: (6:38:56 PM): hard to say Me: (6:39:01 PM): you just kinda know when you see her... Her: (6:39:12 PM): thats how i feel about it too Me: (6:39:13 PM): shes gotta be a good dance tho Me: (6:39:20 PM): *dancer Me: (6:39:51 PM): i dunno its hard Me: (6:39:55 PM): physically its ez Me: (6:39:59 PM): emotionally... Me: (6:40:04 PM): much more difficult Me: (6:40:29 PM): but generally someone who has plans for the future and has good values Her: (6:40:41 PM): so true. like they can be cute and everything but personality really makes a person Me: (6:40:46 PM): aye Me: (6:40:50 PM): cute doesnt hurt tho Me: (6:40:51 PM): =) Her: (6:41:08 PM): haha o for sure i mean for actually liking someone it cant jsu tbe about looks Me: (6:41:28 PM): yup Me: (6:41:45 PM): hence why LS girls = no no Her: (6:41:51 PM): haha really? Her: (6:41:52 PM): why Me: (6:41:56 PM): haha Me: (6:42:03 PM): the way they act Me: (6:42:15 PM): lots are into pot and shit Me: (6:42:25 PM): and act too easy if you know what i mean Her: (6:42:54 PM): oo haha gotchya Me: (6:43:18 PM): half the fun is gettin the girl Me: (6:43:23 PM): a good challenge Me: (6:43:51 PM): ne ways enough bout girls... Me: (6:43:56 PM): u hear about them everyday lol Her: (6:44:02 PM): hahahaha true Me: (6:44:07 PM): how was ur last performance? Her: (6:44:43 PM): it was ok i think my best night was friday Her: (6:44:49 PM): why didnt u say hi to meee Me: (6:44:55 PM): i was there sat Me: (6:45:01 PM): i had to entertain my guest Me: (6:45:02 PM): Me: (6:45:13 PM): didnt really see ne 1 Me: (6:45:37 PM): well i did... Me: (6:45:42 PM): but they had the fam around em and stuff Me: (6:45:53 PM): and family is first... always Her: (6:46:07 PM): aww thats cute u were on a date Me: (6:46:13 PM): date? Me: (6:46:14 PM): haha Me: (6:46:19 PM): no Her: (6:46:27 PM): well u said u had to entertain someone so i assumed u were on a date lol Me: (6:46:28 PM): just with my friend Me: (6:46:39 PM): you jump to conclusions quickly i notice Me: (6:46:53 PM): its ok i do too Me: (6:46:55 PM): Her: (6:47:04 PM): haha u made it seem like it Me: (6:47:10 PM): nah Me: (6:47:16 PM): i got lots of friends Me: (6:47:22 PM): but even so Me: (6:47:35 PM): if im with someone i like to give them 100% of my attention Her: (6:48:17 PM): awww thats cute Her: (6:48:22 PM): u seem like a nice guy Me: (6:48:39 PM): im not a nice guy Me: (6:48:47 PM): im an AWSOME GUY Me: (6:48:50 PM): Me: (6:49:44 PM): so i heard that a few of the girls had showed some emotion on sunday Her: (6:49:55 PM): dont get cocky now Her: (6:49:56 PM): jkjk Me: (6:50:01 PM): lawl Me: (6:50:18 PM): did you? Her: (6:50:25 PM): did i what Me: (6:50:34 PM): show any emotion on sunday? Her: (6:50:42 PM): on stage Me: (6:50:47 PM): i mean after Me: (6:50:54 PM): like did it affect you Her: (6:50:58 PM): what? Me: (6:51:02 PM): hit you that it was ur Last performance? Her: (6:52:54 PM): ooo kind of ive done it since freshmen year but it didnt hit me as much as it hit other people Her: (6:53:02 PM): have u decided where you want to go to college yet? Me: (6:53:03 PM): dont lie Me: (6:53:29 PM): and yes i finally decided on a college Her: (6:53:31 PM): haha i dotn lie Her: (6:53:37 PM): whats it going to be Me: (6:54:16 PM): Los Angles school of gynecology Her: (6:54:57 PM): congratsssss Her: (6:55:02 PM): thats exciting Me: (6:55:07 PM): i know isnt it? Me: (6:55:16 PM): vERy exciting Me: (6:56:29 PM): so are you familiar with the school? Her: (6:56:49 PM): nope Me: (6:56:51 PM): k Me: (6:57:14 PM): go ask your principal tom. Me: (6:57:15 PM): k? Me: (6:58:46 PM): so where did you decide on going? Me: (6:58:53 PM): has LMU responded yet? Her: (7:00:15 PM): no i got waitlisted because they didnt get my transcripts Her: (7:00:27 PM): no im deposting in sdsu and hopeudlly ill get into lmu Me: (7:00:36 PM): oh i c Me: (7:00:40 PM): sdsu is nice too tho Her: (7:00:56 PM): i yea i know ill make the best out of any sitaution but i just think im better suited at lmu Me: (7:01:02 PM): you wanna stay near home though right? Her: (7:01:11 PM): yupp but not live at home Her: (7:01:13 PM): you? Me: (7:01:20 PM): yeah i figured you for the type Me: (7:01:43 PM): same with me Her: (7:02:00 PM): haha how did u know Me: (7:02:31 PM): just things i have picked up in the way you say things Her: (7:02:54 PM): what else have u picked up Me: (7:03:35 PM): i notice everything Me: (7:03:43 PM): but im not quick to make assumtions about people Her: (7:04:02 PM): thats good...anything else u picked up about me that i should know Her: (7:04:03 PM): im curious Me: (7:04:25 PM): well i knew ud ask me what i meant Me: (7:04:28 PM): cuse i know ur curious Her: (7:04:37 PM): is it bad Her: (7:04:39 PM): be honest Her: (7:04:51 PM): i wont get offended like the splitend comment Me: (7:04:55 PM): lol Me: (7:04:59 PM): you hold grudges dont you Me: (7:05:01 PM): Her: (7:05:27 PM): haha nopee u can even ask ali im wayyy too nice that it screws me over sometimes Me: (7:05:50 PM): mmhmm i know all about that Me: (7:06:13 PM): ur lookin at the master of that Me: (7:06:18 PM): <------------------- Her: (7:06:30 PM): i guess we have a lot in common lol Me: (7:06:35 PM): a few things Me: (7:07:18 PM): so lets say you get into lmu... Me: (7:07:27 PM): or rather when you get into lmu Me: (7:07:38 PM): what are u planning on majoring in? Her: (7:08:45 PM): law Her: (7:08:59 PM): but im still somewhat considering pharmacy but mostly law Me: (7:09:06 PM): no way really? Her: (7:09:13 PM): yupp Her: (7:09:14 PM): why Me: (7:09:18 PM): im considering nutrition and criminology Me: (7:09:20 PM): Her: (7:09:58 PM): really? Her: (7:10:01 PM): thats interesting Me: (7:10:10 PM): haha Me: (7:10:15 PM): u have no idea what that means do you? Her: (7:10:44 PM): haha yes....nutrtion adn criminology Her: (7:10:50 PM): is it under one major or two separate ones Me: (7:10:57 PM): Me: (7:11:02 PM): two separate Me: (7:11:35 PM): so studying law Me: (7:11:48 PM): ur not gonna become a lawyer right? Her: (7:13:02 PM): haha are u kidding Her: (7:13:09 PM): i wanna be a criminal attorney Her: (7:13:30 PM): i was thinking about family law like with divroce and everything but a lot of people tell me not to go into that Me: (7:13:37 PM): thats depressing Me: (7:13:57 PM): but then again Me: (7:13:58 PM): thats on you Her: (7:14:02 PM): im rreally considering pharmacy though because my dads a pharmacist and loves it Me: (7:14:07 PM): oh yeah? Her: (7:14:10 PM): yup Me: (7:14:12 PM): nice nice Me: (7:14:16 PM): oh hey check this out Her: (7:14:16 PM): why is it depressing Me: (7:14:20 PM): i got a pharmacy joke Me: (7:14:22 PM): wanna hear it? Her: (7:14:29 PM): sure Me: (7:14:30 PM): k Me: (7:15:04 PM): so its prom night and this guy goes into a pharmacy... Me: (7:15:25 PM): he knows hes probably gonna hook up with this girl that hes taking right? Me: (7:15:50 PM): so he approaches the pharmicist and asks the guys opinion on condoms and stuff Me: (7:15:54 PM): u following? Her: (7:16:11 PM): yup Me: (7:16:13 PM): k Me: (7:16:21 PM): so the pharmicist is hella nice Me: (7:16:32 PM): gives him really good advice Me: (7:16:38 PM): how to please girls etc... Me: (7:17:01 PM): the guy is hella happy and goes home that night to pick up his date Her: (7:17:24 PM): kk Me: (7:17:29 PM): he sits down for a bite to eat at her house with her and her parents Me: (7:17:37 PM): orderves Me: (7:17:42 PM): and starts praying Me: (7:17:55 PM): after 10 minutes the guys head is still bowed Me: (7:18:05 PM): and the girl says to him... Me: (7:18:11 PM): I had no idea you were so religious.. Me: (7:18:23 PM): and he responds.... i had no idea your father was a pharmacist Me: (7:18:27 PM): Her: (7:19:08 PM): hahaha Her: (7:19:11 PM): thats pretty funny Her: (7:19:18 PM): thats kinda awkward too Me: (7:19:26 PM): yeah Me: (7:19:33 PM): just imagine being in that situation Her: (7:19:43 PM): seriouslyy Me: (7:19:46 PM): haha Me: (7:19:51 PM): i dunno Me: (7:20:03 PM): just somethin random i thought of when u said ur dad was a pharmicist Her: (7:20:27 PM): id tell my dad that joke but it might be kind of weird coming from me Me: (7:20:42 PM): would you tell ur dad what ur planning to do in college? Me: (7:20:49 PM): on ur *free time* Her: (7:21:16 PM): do you mean like sex drink and stuff like that Me: (7:21:52 PM): i meant study hard and make lasting friendships Me: (7:21:58 PM): but if you wanna get dirty like that Me: (7:22:00 PM): i guess its ok too Her: (7:22:04 PM): haha shut up Me: (7:22:10 PM): ^^ Her: (7:22:28 PM): your the only person i know who does ^^ Me: (7:22:36 PM): ^^ Me: (7:23:13 PM): well hey i need to go practice Me: (7:23:20 PM): get rdy for this saturday Her: (7:23:30 PM): kk ill talk to you later Me: (7:23:33 PM): but its been great chattin witcha Her: (7:23:37 PM): you too Me: (7:23:43 PM): oh hey Me: (7:23:46 PM): one more thing Me: (7:23:51 PM): do you like icecream? Her: (7:23:59 PM): yesssss i love it Me: (7:24:05 PM): on a scale of 1-10 Her: (7:24:18 PM): m probably 7 or 8 depending on my mood Her: (7:24:20 PM): why Me: (7:24:23 PM): good Me: (7:24:37 PM): cuse tom. is 31 flavor's 31 cent ice cream day Her: (7:24:49 PM): hahaha thanks for that Me: (7:24:50 PM): and ima go hit that shit up Me: (7:25:10 PM): so if you wanna come on down Me: (7:25:14 PM): it would be nice to see ya Her: (7:25:19 PM): yea for sure Me: (7:25:24 PM): ite cool Me: (7:25:30 PM): you live in... glendale? Her: (7:25:34 PM): yea Me: (7:25:35 PM): k Me: (7:25:37 PM): hmmm Me: (7:25:41 PM): are there any out there? Her: (7:25:47 PM): hah yes Me: (7:25:50 PM): k Me: (7:25:59 PM): ima be out there tom ne way Me: (7:26:11 PM): cuse i need to check in with the dmv there Her: (7:26:15 PM): kk for sure now go to practice lol Me: (7:26:21 PM): haha alright alright Me: (7:26:29 PM): my bud is commin in like 4 Me: (7:26:30 PM): mins Me: (7:26:54 PM): so yeah txt me Me: (7:26:56 PM): or something Her: (7:27:02 PM): kk sounds good Me: (7:27:09 PM): sec Me: (7:27:23 PM): did i give you my digits? Her: (7:27:48 PM): yea heres mine in case u dont have it *numba Me: (7:28:13 PM): k cool Me: (7:28:24 PM): *number Me: (7:28:39 PM): either txt me when ya get out Me: (7:28:42 PM): or call me Me: (7:28:53 PM): my bud is here so i gotta run Her: (7:29:20 PM): kk bye Me: (7:29:34 PM): kk peace Her: went idle at 7:39:21 PM. Her: returned at 7:41:31 PM. Her: signed off at 7:41:44 PM. Her: is offline and will receive your IMs when signing back in. |
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| Author: | Hopeless Romantic [ Wed Apr 30, 2008 6:27 pm ] |
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Taking out the numbers or changing them slightly would be a good idea. |
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| Author: | mOlis_pir3s [ Wed Apr 30, 2008 7:11 pm ] |
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nah man you did good..negged her in a couple of bits, kept C&F...its fine. you did good good lick with the ice cream |
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| Author: | bboy_spy [ Wed Apr 30, 2008 11:25 pm ] |
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haha cool thanks guys... gonna see how tonight goes down, unfortunatley its not hot... kinda cold and gloomy in LA right now so not exactly suitable for icecream. Bleh who cares...always an option to "get warm" |
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| Author: | abc1555 [ Thu May 01, 2008 2:33 am ] |
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oh yes im writing those numbers down! haha jk you did good tho, you acted a little 2 nice even for aim tho imo |
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| Author: | bboy_spy [ Thu May 01, 2008 4:38 am ] |
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damnit dude dint see that shit... hope no 1 fucked this shit up cuse shes ignoring me for some reason.... wow i dont think anyone on this forum would do that but still. Just realizing how big of an error that was... *EDIT POST: Just spoke with her again on AIM and here's how it went down yo. Me: (9:32:49 PM): yo what happend tonight? Her: went idle at 9:38:06 PM. Her: returned at 9:39:08 PM. Her: (9:39:23 PM): i cnat find my phoneeee Me: (9:40:11 PM): mmhmmm Her: (9:41:01 PM): im seriousss Her: (9:41:03 PM): sorryyy Me: (9:41:24 PM): i txted you this after noon Me: (9:41:33 PM): then i called ya but ya didnt pick up so i left a message Me: (9:42:05 PM): i gave up at 7 and just went with my friend Her: (9:42:12 PM): aww im so sorry Me: (9:42:36 PM): so you lost ur phone? Her: (9:43:11 PM): i think its in my cousins car Me: (9:44:01 PM): i c Me: (9:44:23 PM): at first i was a lil pissed Me: (9:44:33 PM): cuse i like havin my time wasted Her: (9:44:58 PM): nah i dont blow people off like that Me: (9:45:08 PM): i didnt figure you for the type Me: (9:45:37 PM): yeah i was talkin to my friend sarah about it tonight Me: (9:45:51 PM): she said that would have just been jacked up Me: (9:45:57 PM): so i gave ya the benefit of the doubt Her: (9:45:57 PM): sarah who Me: (9:46:03 PM): wrasman Her: (9:46:24 PM): well i am sorry but if i could have reached u i would have i dont have alis number memorized so i couldnt ask her Me: (9:46:45 PM): im sure ill forgive you sometime Her: (9:47:23 PM): are u serious Me: (9:47:30 PM): about? Her: (9:48:09 PM): being mad at me Me: (9:48:18 PM): a tad Me: (9:48:23 PM): it wasnt ur fault Me: (9:48:34 PM): and i still went Me: (9:48:39 PM): so nah Me: (9:48:47 PM): jus mad a the sequencing of events Me: (9:49:14 PM): should i be mad at you? Her: (9:49:35 PM): i dont think so because i would have reached u but i couldnt Her: (9:49:42 PM): it jsut seems that ur mad when u were liek ill forgive u soemtime Me: (9:49:59 PM): i know Me: (9:50:11 PM): so what should we do to make up for tonight? Her: (9:50:52 PM): haha idk Me: (9:51:04 PM): well? Me: (9:51:11 PM): do ya wanna make it up to me? Her: (9:51:44 PM): hah sure if ur hurt about it Me: (9:52:08 PM): nnah Me: (9:52:13 PM): do YOU want to? Her: (9:53:29 PM): haha Her: (9:53:35 PM): yea well get a group and ahng otu soemtime Her: (9:53:37 PM): prom was fun Me: (9:53:47 PM): nervous laughter i sense Her: (9:53:56 PM): haha nooo Me: (9:54:00 PM): mhmmm Me: (9:54:53 PM): well my bros are gonna be at the SF prom on sat Me: (9:54:55 PM): are you goin? Her: (9:55:28 PM): yup Me: (9:55:45 PM): k then... Me: (9:55:49 PM): you busy friday Her: (9:56:14 PM): fridays a mother daughter thing with my mom for school and then i might have to abbysit but if anything changes ill text u Me: (9:56:28 PM): ive heard that before Her: (9:58:01 PM): o gosh Me: (10:07:34 PM): well...i give everyone second chances and im not one to hold a grudge. I'll be waiting for your text tommorrow Me: (10:07:50 PM): good night. |
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| Author: | Hopeless Romantic [ Thu May 01, 2008 12:45 pm ] |
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I would hope no one would do that on this forum, but there are stupid people in this world. Better to be safe then sorry. |
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| Author: | Drifter99 [ Thu May 01, 2008 1:40 pm ] |
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Sounds like you did a lot of things rite... seems like she genuinely lost her phone (or left somewhere) so I don't think I would worry too much, unless she's a really good liar.. haha, as a lot of girls are! But you did well, I just hope you didn't come off too needy on the last convo, etc. because it could possibly have been perceived that way by her, though not sure how well you know this girl. If she doesn't call/txt tomorrow, I would wait for her to contact you again, whether it be on phone/txt or even AIM.. you've left a good impression on her from the first convo, but I think if you try contacting her again moving forward it will show too much interest on your part. P.S. Nice pharmacist joke... very funny! haha |
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| Author: | The Shoveler [ Thu May 01, 2008 2:11 pm ] |
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Great 1st convo! I thought the 2nd was ok. It was good in that you told her to make it up to you. In my opinion, at the end when you told her you'd be waiting for her text that MAY have come off as somewhat needy. I personally wouldn't have said that, but hopefully things will go well! Let us know! |
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| Author: | scuglass [ Thu May 01, 2008 5:48 pm ] |
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Good work man... in the second post tho it seems like you were showing you were upset and disappointed... stay away from this sort of thing cause it shows her she has some power over you... But you recovered well by saying you just went with someone else... this shows you have options and shes not the only person in your life. Keep it up! Scott. |
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| Author: | bboy_spy [ Fri May 02, 2008 6:22 am ] |
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yeah ima see how it goes... she didnt contact me today, but she has my number so maybe she will call sometime. You guys think that if i see her on AIM that i should just ignore her or say in a few days something to the affect of " I just wanted you to know im not mad at you, in case you were wondering". Cuse i really dont know her that well yet, and im not sure her level of confidence so i dont really wanna neg her and come off as a jerk. She might think that I'm mad at her and that if ima blow my top over something that small its not worth it... dunno ima give it a few days, what you guys think? ps: just wanna comment to everyone, thank you for all the support and comments. Really learning at an accelerated pace thanks to you guys tellin me what i did well and not so well. Been doin pua style for about 2 years, but never really put it into practice and experimented with it. Thanks for giving me that opportunity guys |
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| Author: | The Shoveler [ Fri May 02, 2008 12:55 pm ] |
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Hm... I personally would not do the I'm not mad at you thing. I think you should give her a bit to contact you and if she doesn't do it, I would either let her go or contact her for a reason (such as to tell an amazing story that happened to you that she would appreciate or to tell her u and ur buddies are going somewhere she should tag along.) If after that nothing comes of it, I say let it go. |
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| Author: | bboy_spy [ Fri May 02, 2008 11:06 pm ] |
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hmmm i really like the idea of tellin her a fun story... maybe a take off of something i used in the first convo... or i could pull the nick name trick. "hey i thought of the cutest nickname for ya yesterday..." they will do anything to find out lol! Dunno but it was since wed... its now sunday and no word.... is it ok to say someting like... oh by the way im not mad at you in case you were wondering as an opener? or nah? |
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