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| Author: | the_henstar [ Sun Apr 27, 2008 1:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Skpetical friends say great people cannot be found in clubs |
I have some skeptical friends... That always give me this line of reasoning...club people are shallow and stupid and theres no point picking up or trying to....where u get a longterm lasting relationship is doing something you like ..like joining some kind of activity or sports group....to an extent i agree...who else kinda holds this belief? that club people have no substance? Henry |
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| Author: | mozyFresh [ Sun Apr 27, 2008 2:01 am ] |
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Yeah not usually the greatest people i've ever met are found in them, but i consider myself pretty great and i go to clubs. women have there bitchsheilds on high at clubs, because they expect to be approached and have guys trying their Luck. So you either need to have game, be incredibly handsome or be approached. Of course the party girl may not be the type of girl you would want to form a relationship with, but at least they're fun. If you're looking for a long-term GF, probly not the best place to start. |
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| Author: | Killians [ Sun Apr 27, 2008 2:08 am ] |
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I think that depends a lot on your age. In college almost everyone goes to clubs/bars. If you are in your upper 30's/40's the club scene is not your best option to finding decent people. |
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| Author: | Chief [ Sun Apr 27, 2008 2:13 am ] |
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People go to the club to have FUN, not to look for serious shit. Call your skeptical friends out for being lame virgins. lol |
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| Author: | looking_at_the_sunset [ Sun Apr 27, 2008 5:54 pm ] |
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Killians is right. Almost everyone in collage age goes to clubs. You may also select to which club to go, ie avoid clubs when usually only shallow people go etc. |
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| Author: | Krylon [ Sun Apr 27, 2008 6:45 pm ] |
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Some good points made already. What are you looking for? A relationship or a hook up? How much pickup experience do you have? That will greatly determine where you will go sarge. Less experience you probably don't want to go to a club where its loud and you aren't used to approaching girls. You'll seem timid and probably too quiet. If you are willing to speak up and take the dive then clubs are great for meeting a lot of new people in one night. I'd say your friends are intimidated by the club scene or just approaching in general. If you want to try other places to sarge check out Malls, beaches, theme parks and other areas with a decent amount of people and many opportunities for approaches. Other than that tell your friends to stop whining and go out to have fun. |
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| Author: | system_dude [ Mon Apr 28, 2008 1:23 am ] |
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The same people that are in the clubs & bars and in the sports, dance, blah blah club! The same girl that you get introduced to throught a circle of friends is likley to have been dancing in a club just that weekend! Dont wait for your friends to introduce you to her through the social circle, get out there and meet her yourself! |
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