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Author:  The Genie [ Sat Apr 26, 2008 6:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Negs. Maybe its my mindset.
I am having a huge problem with negs, I can open almost any set and start conversation, but when it comes to alienating the target and throwing negs her way I freeze and draw blanks, I cannot really think of ways to neg her. Maybe that sounds wierd to some of you, I don't know.. I'm thinking that maybe it is that I'm still locked in my nice guy mindset or whatever it is.. I consider myself to be usually pretty clever and intellectual but for some reason.. everytime I open. I can't think of any negs appropriate for the situation..

So.. should I memorize a bunch of them and rehearse before I go out, or what?
Author:  santos_br [ Sat Apr 26, 2008 9:01 pm ]
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This is a very new question and quite interesting...

Let's face it, we don't want to offend the chicks so in the beggining I think it's normal to have this fear.

But follow me here, we know that we only can throw negs if there is already ATRACTION. So, be calm while doing so because she will sense any kind of anxiety. Another reason to mantain calm is that if she is interested on you, a playfull joke will not get her mad.

Finally, NEVER.. NEVER insult a chick. Just don't. The thing I like to do is to see the HB8~10 as an HB5~6. Tease her, HAVE FUN, provoke her and make her laugh while having to prove to you that she is a nice person.
Author:  The Genie [ Sun Apr 27, 2008 12:19 am ]
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Thanks for the advice santos, but like i said... my problem is not the willingness or even fear of throwing a neg here or there.. or even when to throw it out there, my problem is thinking of one to use in the moment, one that is appropriate.. I mean I suppose I could make a list and memorize some, but I'm frusturated with the fact that I can't think of them myself when the moment arises.
Author:  Castnett [ Sun Apr 27, 2008 2:46 am ]
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You can always finda way to neg a girl on her clothes. If you fuck up the neg and she takes offense to it, just move on and look unfazed. Observe your surroundings and minute details regarding the HB and you should be fine.
Author:  Hopeless Romantic [ Sun Apr 27, 2008 1:12 pm ]
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Memorizing negs can be a good and bad idea. Good because then you have an arsenal that you can use; however, its bad because you can't possibly memorize negs for all the possible situations out there. And then you will be looking so hard to use one of your memorized negs that you may end up missing an opportunity to use one that you made up.

In terms of thinking up negs on the spot, I like to think of a neg as a playful tease. So think of her as your little sister, or your best female friend. Tease her like that. Its much more poking fun at her rather then insulting her. I usually give my negs in a c/f tone.
Author:  The Genie [ Sun Apr 27, 2008 4:55 pm ]
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Thanks for the input guys, I guess I will just need to practice... a lot.
Author:  Krylon [ Sun Apr 27, 2008 5:32 pm ]
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One of my favorite ones is pretty universal though.


Just get into a conversation, throw some jokes out and make her laugh a few times.

Then say: "Your laugh kind of reminds me of Elmer Fudd, how cute"
Author:  Green_Eyes [ Thu May 01, 2008 1:29 am ]
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i have the same problem. For me i just completely forget to even use the neg on my target. The conversations always seem to go so well that i just forget about it. What i do normally is i ignore her. that works always for me but when it comes to throwing negs at my target in the heat of the moment i just cant think of one.
Author:  Hopeless Romantic [ Thu May 01, 2008 3:54 am ]
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I think ignoring her gets the same thing accomplished as the neg. It shows her that you aren't hitting on/interested in her.

Remeber, negs are only backhanded compliments. They are not to be mistaken for direct insults because those are just rude.

There are many ways to get the same thing accomplished. To become a true PUA you have to understand the theory behind everything and be able to apply it to your everyday life so that it becomes a part of you. Being able to recite canned material is a learned behavior. Making it a part of who you are is turning it into a lifestyle.
Author:  Green_Eyes [ Thu May 01, 2008 10:48 pm ]
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its all about practice and calibration while your in the field. Just because the method says to neg after a DHV spike doesnt mean you have to do it to everyone. Some girls are into you right off the bat meaning no reason to verbally neg her.
Author:  BadolzoN [ Mon Sep 21, 2009 5:21 pm ]
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Good way to neg her is also non verbally.

Like if she's on top of you, pinch her stomach fat (All girls have it and they're all conscious about it + she's sitting down which brings out even more of it even if she's fit as a fiddle)

:)

Or you can say "wow you have like weird hair" or "You have big hair it's like all over the place"

Girls are conscious about their hair.
Author:  Turn Up the Night [ Mon Sep 21, 2009 5:30 pm ]
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Well high heel shoes are just asking for it:

"So tell me, without those are you only about 4 feet tall or something?"
"Can I ask, when you're in those shoes, do you ever have to watch out for low flying planes?"

Wearing a lot of rings on her fingers or with a particularly large one:

"So when you go swimming, do you have to take those off otherwise you sink to the bottom?"

Those are some examples, however I will say, try and look around for material, if she's blonde, there's something, but as was said, being insulting is not on.
Author:  J. Hova [ Wed Sep 23, 2009 2:58 am ]
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try practicing negs on girls that are your friends/ girls you feel some what conformable around and how they react to get a better understanding of what an acceptable neg and not so acceptable negs are like. thats what im trying to do
Author:  expat_of_love [ Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:14 am ]
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American Girl Negs:
Their weight (First thing upon landing back in America that I notice are the HUGE legs on broads).
Flip-flops (Second thing I notice at the airport. Not attractive.).
Shorts (How unsexy are shorts on a girl!)
Stringy hair. (Curl that mess!)
Lack of makeup. (Who wants to date your brother?)
How loud they are. (They remind me of annoying drunk British males in Riga).
How uncultured they are.
How bitchy they are. (And you wonder why the divorce rate is over 50% in America)
How immature they are for their age.
How vulgar they are. (American girls actually think it is funny when they fart).

I can give you dozens more if you want them. Hey, somebody has to date the beasts.
Author:  SRVisGod24 [ Wed Sep 23, 2009 7:57 am ]
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American Girl Negs:
Their weight (First thing upon landing back in America that I notice are the HUGE legs on broads).
Flip-flops (Second thing I notice at the airport. Not attractive.).
Shorts (How unsexy are shorts on a girl!)
Stringy hair. (Curl that mess!)
Lack of makeup. (Who wants to date your brother?)
How loud they are. (They remind me of annoying drunk British males in Riga).
How uncultured they are.
How bitchy they are. (And you wonder why the divorce rate is over 50% in America)
How immature they are for their age.
How vulgar they are. (American girls actually think it is funny when they fart).

I can give you dozens more if you want them. Hey, somebody has to date the beasts.
All of this! I love using the loud one. "Hey, why are you so loud? Your gonna wake the neighbors." I love messing with a girl about their hair and makeup too, cause as we all know they take forever make sure it looks perfect. It's the perfect low blow. And I find that it works better for me if I give a sly little cocky smirk, it drives them insane!
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