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| Author: | Skaterforlife [ Fri Apr 25, 2008 10:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Im a huge AFC |
Okay well im shy and theres this girl I like, I feel like asking her out but I was too scared so my friend asked for me and she said i was cool but too shy but she said she wouldnt turn me down if I asked her out, I know that is probably the most AFC thing to do but im sorry. So my question is how to not be shy, im not a shy person im actually a funny guy but I cant be funny aound her because im too shy. I need help I wanna turn this around and make her laugh more. |
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| Author: | c_n12 [ Fri Apr 25, 2008 11:41 pm ] |
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Every time you think about approaching her do you experience a tension in your stomach by any chance that is charactarized by a tightness in your gut? |
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| Author: | Skaterforlife [ Fri Apr 25, 2008 11:45 pm ] |
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Ummm not really im not shy with girls just with girls I like. If im gonna eat lunch with her I get nervous but not sh1t my pants nervous I still have AA when I try to approach everytime but I approach her anyway |
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| Author: | Solomon II [ Sat Apr 26, 2008 12:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Im a huge AFC |
If you're a funny guy then you can be funny around her. Stop all this "I can't" bullshit. Don't get me wrong, I know where you're coming from. I know people who are really cool and fun to be around but once they're with someone they haven't talked to before they become really shy. You just need to suck it up and go talk to her, I mean seriously she told your friend she'd go out with you if you went and talked to her, you know for a fact she's gonna say yes so just go do it. People only feel shy about talking to girls because they don't know if she's gonna like them or not, or if she thinks they're weird, or if she tells them she has a boyfriend, or a myriad of other stupid things... you don't need to consider any of these things because you know for a fact she's gonna say yes, so what's the problem? There are a lot of girls I like, and yeah, I can be shy sometimes. Sometimes I can't be bothered to approach a girl and talk to her. But lemme tell you, if someone told me a girl wanted me I'd have to be a fucking idiot not to take advantage of that situation. You have no excuse whatsoever not to go talk to her, so I'm gonna tell you exactly what to do. Go up to her the next time you see her, as soon as you see her, and ask her "Hey did my friend come and ask you out for me yesterday?" She'll say yes. Then you say, "Jesus, he's always doing that, even to girls I don't like... have your friends ever done that to you? It's so stupid, seriously" She'll blab on for a bit then you can say "Yeah, we should go out some time though. When are you free, I can call you and let you know what I'm doing." That's all there is to it. Once you arrange a date, get her number so you can call her, talk to her for a while then excuse yourself so you can go to class or whatever. |
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| Author: | wtfpwnage [ Sun Apr 27, 2008 2:06 am ] |
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be really confident and approah- the diffderence between that and her perception of u should be a surprise for her and she'd be even more interested. just imo. if u can be confident around girls, u can be confident around her... after all, she's JUSt a girl that u wanna....... |
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