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PostPosted: Wed Jan 03, 2018 5:06 am 
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I'm terrible at leading flirty interactions with girls I just met. So, im not trying to sound conceited but I know I'm a pretty good looking guy with a fun personality. When I go out its mainly to have fun, but I go pretty hard tho usually end up dancing with a few girls. The problem is I suck ass at leading and don't push the interaction/boundaries. I'm able to hold a good conversation, but I just never know how to escalate it. I try to let things happen naturally and that doesn't usually end up in my favor. I pretty much never open girls unless it happens naturally. Also, I'm terrible at flirting noticing signals, and even complimenting girls... And I guess for that last part I guess I feel like compliments are somewhat shallow and not very genuine. Girls for the most part like the vibes I give out (I've been told before a few times) but it's like the more down they are for me the worse/less I do at escalating.


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I'm terrible at leading flirty interactions with girls I just met. So, im not trying to sound conceited but I know I'm a pretty good looking guy with a fun personality. When I go out its mainly to have fun, but I go pretty hard tho usually end up dancing with a few girls. The problem is I suck ass at leading and don't push the interaction/boundaries. I'm able to hold a good conversation, but I just never know how to escalate it. I try to let things happen naturally and that doesn't usually end up in my favor. I pretty much never open girls unless it happens naturally. Also, I'm terrible at flirting noticing signals, and even complimenting girls... And I guess for that last part I guess I feel like compliments are somewhat shallow and not very genuine. Girls for the most part like the vibes I give out (I've been told before a few times) but it's like the more down they are for me the worse/less I do at escalating.

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