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you chatted with her over text a few times in one day
Why are you chatting with a woman a few times throughout the day, and not asking her out?
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but your schedule's packed for the next week so you didn't set a date with her.
this doesn't make any sense. How do you have time to send a few texts, but you don't have time to ask her out in those initial texts?
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Now, if today is Monday, and I set a date for Friday, I can go without texting her til Friday and she will respond. But if no date is set, and I go 3-4 days without texting, I should basically just not expect a response, because I don't get them anymore (MOST, but not all the time).
This happens because you're acting like a text pal, not a potential dominant lover.
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But I used to think that showing a little disinterest by going more than couple days without texting would actually increase their interest in you. What do you guys think about this? Do you usually get ignored if you go more than a couple days without texting?
always ask a woman out (whom you want to ask out, lol) right away. If you're in day game, ask her out right there. If you meet her at a bar and there's chemistry, ask her home.
Like you said, if you set a date, and don't text her, you're good. It's when you act passive and waste their time (and yours) by not asking them out quickly that produces unwanted results.
Trust me, man, I hear women trash the hell out of guys who do this.
It's okay to not contact women for two or three days or whatever. But you have to make your interest known immediately by asking her over that night, or for a date. If you don't, it implies you aren't good with women, or confident.