Hello I post here to talk about my problem; I m sorry to warn you, if you fear about being irritated by complaining, please don't read any further, so I will try to make fast

I am 43 yo, and single, I have no success with women, I am no longer able to work; I only got one girl, my 1st one at 40; I loved her very much but because of my unstable situation, she left me

I am afraid by approaching women, I am unable to talk to one of them, because
- I am afraid about them,
- often, I don't dare to approach because I don't feel common universe, I feel I wouldn't get on well, or because the girl looks to me agressive
- I feel guilty about approaching, in my country, men are heavily controlled concerning relations to women, we are very bad considered by society
- I think I will disturb her; and that she will feel importuned;
- I feel uniniteresting, annoying, low value man

I hardly make relations; when I come to try to speak to someone, I make them leave; I feel like having to look-like, acting "as such" and "as if ", have huge lack of social behavior and skills.
When I out by night, it is impossible to approach women, they always talk in closed band, and I note due to many cold and rejection to my approaches that the night they don't go out to meet people
I think they all hate me, that either they don't need love nor sex, or if they were able to have sex with any man or unknown, they would except with me

I applied lots of ways to get one, dance, online dating, urbeez, meetups website, none worked, I asked for a love coach, he gave me up after paid; I feel now lonely and disappointed about some community who treated me with scorn and then excluded me; I now would be grateful here for constructive, hopeful and friendly help Thx in advance

Yeah...sounds like you have too many issues to get over before anyone here can provide you with any help.

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You can go out and try to meet women but you cannot work? Something is not adding up. Requirement #1 is for you to obtain some self respect one way or another. A woman will not respect you until you respect yourself. A guy was in here calling himself "The Pussy." Seriously, chin up motherfuckers.

OMG a consequence of feminism?

funny: "issue" may mean "solution" in french, they call the word "faux ami"

I don't speak French, but in English "issue" means: an important topic or problem for debate or discussion. By the English definition that French translation is wrong.

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The man that says he can and the man that says he can't are both usually right. Honestly, it's not impossible, but if you haven't gotten together by 43 there is going to be a real uphill battle ahead.

At the end of the day bro.. Excuses are the nails that build house of failure, and some people complain and some people win. You either figure the shit out or you FAIL. That's life. And life isn't going to have sympathy on you so that you succeed. It hasn't happened in 43 years and it ain't going to happen now.

You have to ask yourself? How am I going to get it done? And if all you have is excuses and complaint you WON'T. It's that simple. If your will and passion isn't strong enough to go after what you want despite obstacles, you won't have it.

A good way to create that passion again if you're lacking it is to give up porn and masturbation for 90 days. I've worked with dozens and dozens of men and the one common theme that I see amongst the guys that have the least success with women is that they watch porn and masturbate daily.

If nothing else has worked the least you can do is give that a try.

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I can't approach, Cause Im small, I feel ridiculous I feel despited and I feel seedy, and anytime I approach I feel I look stupid, My dad never talked to me, he gave me up in loneliness