Been trying to get with this hb10 for awhile now, she was texting me on the weekends but i didn't think much of it, I'd text her back make an attempt to hang out, but never expected to anything.

then i got into the pua scene, built comfort and asked her if she wanted to hang out, she said she'd love to, so she was suppose to call me that night after she was done with dinner, never called so I called her and left a message and told her to wear something sexy if we're still going out.

No response, I sent her a message on myspace a couple days later saying my time was valuable and she wasted it. No response.

3 days later I send her another one trying to cut my loses and atleast learn from the situation, asked her what attracts her to a guy, and then I promised to leave her alone total dlv. No response.

the next day I sent her a message "i have issues i lit myself on fire when i was kid just so my mom would cover me with a blanket" no response.

2 weeks go by and I ask her if she wants to go to this event 450 miles away and spend the weekend with me, we're both 20, although we both have fake ids so we can pretty much go anywhere. She responded! wtf?! She wants to go, asked questions about it and everything, it's in 2 weeks, so I call her tonight and asked her what are the chances of her flaking, because my time is valuable and if she doesn't want to go, there are plenty other girls i'd like to ask. She says she's totally in, shocked i tell her to call me this weekend and confirm.

But of course I have 4 other girls that are already wanting to go, so it's not a big deal if she flakes.

I can't see a pattern here, does someone care to explain what happened?
Prior to this we hung out once when I was 17, she was a club promoter and got me into the club for free. I slept at her house, but with a different girl.

I send her a message every time she post a bulletin on myspace telling her how silly/childish she is and when she post new pictures I neg her. She responds to no one on myspace but me, and her girlfriends.

She's just a mystery to me, I can't figure her out, insight, comments, concerns are more than welcome.

also thinking about taking a chartered sailboat around the area we're going, it's only $100 for 2 hours, and I'm pretty sure its nothing she's ever experienced before.

-always leave her better off than when you found her, or is that just too romantic too soon and too young?

It's a good idea, but take someone that is actually interested in you, offering her a chartered sailboat is like buying her a drink at a bar.

hmm, but if it's something i want to do and well i gotta take her with me, we'll see if she actually confirms though..

it's called bimmerfest, gathering of bmws once a year in santa barabara.

As for where we're staying..hotel, friends houses, i dunno havent given it a lot of thought.

and ya the sailboat thing is kind of extreme, but it's always something i wanted to do, and i 'gotta' take her, well because what is she going to do for 2 hours while im on a sailboat chartered for a private party..

one'itis maybe, just because she is so together and won't flinch if a guy doesnt call her back cause there's 10 more calling her the next day.

and i don't contact her as much as you may think
maybe once a month, until just recently after i got flaked on and then ignored, i didnt know what to do..

the other 4 girls are like hb7s on a good day, so clearly the afc part of me wants to bring her just cause she's hot, but she doesn't have to know that.