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Author:  looking_at_the_sunset [ Fri Apr 18, 2008 7:30 pm ]
Post subject:  How often to meet and text
Hi

I've met this cute girl on my friend's party. We were dancing in a club whole night. Week later we had two great, great dates. I did a lot of teasing, share couple stories, did perfect Cube. Everything was on and we end up making out.
Another week later, which is now, I decided I must see her, but I had a cold. I decided to meet with her anyway, because I did not want to do pause between dates too long. But due to the cold I was not feeling good, I had a bad mood and I didn't make out with her because I dodn't want her to get cold. Only small amout of light, casual kissing. We went for a walk for 1,5 h.

Now I'm wandering: did I, because of this date, my bad mood etc, ruin everything that was build before? I think I will go crazy until I met her again and make shure she is into me like before.

I could have stayed home repairing my health, but I was thinking that if the pause beetween dates will be too long, ie. longer than 5 days, she would lost her interest towards me.

Was I right? How many days may pass without her loosing atraction towards me? Note that we were texting vie sms and instant messenger almost every day.
Author:  jmark [ Sun Apr 20, 2008 3:43 am ]
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No I don't think you fucked up. I get what you were saying about not wanting to let the line go slack and what not. Next time you talk to her heck, let her know you were going through some tough shit with a roommate or whatever, turn it into a dhv story or something and that you weren't 100% focused. But don't apologize, just explain.
Author:  jmark [ Sun Apr 20, 2008 3:51 am ]
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Additional note. If you are texting/IMing A LOT, you might want to cut back a bit because you might seem too try hard/available. Be busy and make her work toward you. Remember you are the prize. This shit's chess, it aint checkers.
Author:  looking_at_the_sunset [ Sun Apr 20, 2008 9:34 am ]
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Thanks, I talked with her on messenger, everything seem to be all right :) I just got too emotionally... shouldn't be wondering so much. Fortunatelly, I didn't whine or lament but rather make some jokes and tell her that I want to stay home to recover and do a lot of things that I had to do earlier.
She knows I am not feeling good and she let me know that she cares for me (which... suprised me a bit) so I think I don't have to make up any dhv stories.

I'll just try not texting her today first :)


So, How long do You guys wait beetween dates? Once I had a girlfiend which I had seen only three times, and 3 weeks after that she arrived 300 km to my home. So, attraction lasted at least 3 weeks only by texting and phone game... But I thought that was only good luck and do not believed that this could last so long this time also... strange. Need more experience :)
Author:  looking_at_the_sunset [ Sun Apr 27, 2008 8:13 pm ]
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Hey, how often should I meet girl which I havn't f-closed yet but everything else goes very good so far?

I'm afraid that once a week could be too rarely.
Author:  Krylon [ Sun Apr 27, 2008 8:45 pm ]
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Once a week is fine.
Don't obsess over this girl.
Be calm, you can do this without too much thought.
Don't freak out about not seeing her often, a week is fine.
As long as you don't ignore her for a week it'll be fine.
DO NOT focus all of your time on this one girl. Go out and meet other women, have fun and mingle. Just because a girl showed interest in you doesn't mean she is the only one you have to focus on.
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