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Why is it so many dudes believe handling hot women is like trying to carry the hope diamond in your ass cheeks across the grand canyon on a tight rope in a wind storm?
What an image!
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| Author: | felipe89 [ Mon Jun 26, 2017 12:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | A 9-10 way to eager; I'm not acting myself; is something wro |
I met this stunning girl two times briefly at this night club I work at....(she came up to me) I was feeling nervous and tired so I wasn't my usual funny/witty self; unfortunately this has persisted.... the second time I chatted with her I suggested we hang out sometime and she was eager... she's so eager to hang out that it's to the point where it's making me nervous to flirt and wonder if there's something wrong with her. we really haven't talked much.... I'm also thinking that I'm being too nice; I'm wondering if I should challenge her before I invite her or save all the flirting/attraction game for the date.... It's like I'm experiencing a sort of writer's block... Her: So great to meet you[my name]! Let's dance and or hang soon. (Hands praised emoji SAT 5:12PM Hey let's hang out sometime soon it was nice to meet you as well... SAT 9:40PM Definitely! You are lovely! (Various emojis dancing, kissy face etc. 1 SUN 5:05AM really?? maybe you have me mistaken with someone else lol you keep mentioning dancing. ok I got it. ("lovely")\ SUN 10:55AM We will go dancing sometime SUN 12:37PM Her: Well I'm flex! I also like to chill out with a glass of wine. Or a cold beer! Happy Sunday! I'm thinking about saying: can you handle an amazing adventure? I mean, you are older than me do you have enough stamina to keep up ;p Or Before I whisk you away on an amazing adventure, tell me what's three unique/ interesting or funny things about you? |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Mon Jun 26, 2017 1:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A 9-10 way to eager; I'm not acting myself; is something |
Dude just set up the date and bang her. Stop trying to be clever. |
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| Author: | masterm1ne [ Mon Jun 26, 2017 4:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A 9-10 way to eager; I'm not acting myself; is something |
Yea, no need to keep chatting here unless you are telling her the dirty things you want to do to her |
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| Author: | felipe89 [ Mon Jun 26, 2017 11:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A 9-10 way to eager; I'm not acting myself; is something |
well I might of fucked up the invite with the long message ask out, not keeping it spontaneous, and with the writing errors(was on my phone) if you're available Thursday or Sunday evening(late evening or early evening) I could hang out.. think: amazing adventure There's a small gallery I want to visit that has works of: Damien Hirst, Calder, and Basquiat but I'm content w doing only drinks just the same P.s hope you're getting outside with the awesome weather |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Tue Jun 27, 2017 1:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A 9-10 way to eager; I'm not acting myself; is something |
Attention all guys: stop with the adventure stuff. You're not James Bond! Once the girl is into you, step off the pua acceleration pedal and just establish where and when. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Tue Jun 27, 2017 8:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A 9-10 way to eager; I'm not acting myself; is something |
Cancel the first date or reject her date idea. Basically, show her she is not in control and you don't care that much about her. But do this only if she seems like she's playing games or giving mixed signals. If you are green lit then by all means meet up asap and escalate from the moment you greet her and hug her. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Jun 27, 2017 8:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A 9-10 way to eager; I'm not acting myself; is something |
Why is it so many dudes believe handling hot women is like trying to carry the hope diamond in your ass cheeks across the grand canyon on a tight rope in a wind storm? |
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| Author: | felipe89 [ Tue Jun 27, 2017 9:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A 9-10 way to eager; I'm not acting myself; is something |
My message prob had too much emphasis and was too long... she hasn't responded and prior to that message she returned my messages quickly... I Figure I might wait a week or two and then send her a simple short message hey what are you up to tonight? come to____ if you're available to hang out... |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Tue Jun 27, 2017 10:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A 9-10 way to eager; I'm not acting myself; is something |
Quote: My message prob had too much emphasis and was too long...
Two weeks, and I'm the meantime go out hunting for more ass. You may end up forgetting this whole thing because you find more women!
she hasn't responded and prior to that message she returned my messages quickly... I Figure I might wait a week or two and then send her a simple short message hey what are you up to tonight? come to____ if you're available to hang out... |
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| Author: | flyhotstuff [ Wed Jun 28, 2017 1:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A 9-10 way to eager; I'm not acting myself; is something |
Quote: Why is it so many dudes believe handling hot women is like trying to carry the hope diamond in your ass cheeks across the grand canyon on a tight rope in a wind storm?
What an image!
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| Author: | CobraKaiDojo [ Wed Jun 28, 2017 3:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A 9-10 way to eager; I'm not acting myself; is something |
^ +1 great quote |
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| Author: | Naked Truth [ Thu Jun 29, 2017 9:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A 9-10 way to eager; I'm not acting myself; is something |
Quote: Attention all guys: stop with the adventure stuff. You're not James Bond! Once the girl is into you, step off the pua acceleration pedal and just establish where and when.
Quote: Why is it so many dudes believe handling hot women is like trying to carry the hope diamond in your ass cheeks across the grand canyon on a tight rope in a wind storm?
You guys are my heroes haha, couldn't have said it better
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Thu Jun 29, 2017 5:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A 9-10 way to eager; I'm not acting myself; is something |
Quote: Why is it so many dudes believe handling hot women is like trying to carry the hope diamond in your ass cheeks across the grand canyon on a tight rope in a wind storm?
hold my beer |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Thu Jun 29, 2017 11:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A 9-10 way to eager; I'm not acting myself; is something |
Quote: Why is it so many dudes believe handling hot women is like trying to carry the hope diamond in your ass cheeks across the grand canyon on a tight rope in a wind storm?
A woman is basically inviting herself over, have her over. Adventure? WHY? YOU are her adventure.
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| Author: | felipe89 [ Fri Jun 30, 2017 8:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A 9-10 way to eager; I'm not acting myself; is something |
I think I made this over complicated... The girl went on about how "lovely"/"amazing". so I took that as if she wanted a invite for a well planned date. even though she was suggesting activities she'd be interested in doing (dancing, drinks etc).... my message was too long and badly written. it was unnecessary. This chick is southern and traditional in some ways, so that might of been why she opened the conversation in such a way A chick friend of mine who is big a socialite, older, suggested I send her a message Monday or sooner saying "hey what's your availability? Drinks would be cool" but she also added that I say "excuse me, I misinterpreted your message; you know, work, tired." does explaining the situation come across as desperate and not confident? [basically, overcompensating] she has the message to look back to so unlike a phone call she may hold it against me.. my friend also pointed out that two weeks is too long. and in her opinion she will have forgotten me in terms of interest and the feeling that I gave her... Is it better to engage in conversation before asking her out again, so she doesn't just look at the previous message??? or should I just keep the conversation or date invite simple because i kind messed up the opportunity already? or should I be cocky and say "that's cool this week didn't work for me either jk..." Another way I fucked up was that I added her on Facebook rather than taking her number. she gave me the option when we met.... I thought about something a friend had said about women forgetting you if there's no face with the name. |
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