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Author:  Resurrection08 [ Tue Apr 15, 2008 10:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Advice for someone reaching breaking point
Hi,
As some of you know Ive given myself 12 weeks for my life to change and to get the life that is long overdue to me and what I truly deserve.
Ive been through plenty of hard times and rough shit in my life(through no fault of my own) and Ive decided enough is enough, life is pointless if it is always going to be this way.
Imagine reaching 25 and never even getting close to a serious relationship while the people who doubted you and shit on you are doing great in life, someone the time Ive lost needs to be made up...I need at least 10 years of playing the game and then settle down after all none of this is my fault, if Im going to carry on with my life things need to change.
Now I need realistic advice not just all that get out there nonsense, been there done that...
Realistic advice would be appreciated.
Author:  Rye Lee [ Tue Apr 15, 2008 11:11 pm ]
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You've been given realistic advice and some of us poured our hearts out, with very private details of our lives in the hope of helping you, yet you refuse to take responsibility for your own life and continue to blaim the "world" and "life" for it. Fine, even claim that where you are isn't your fault, it generally isn't, but you need to take responsibility for fixing it from here on out, or your being here is pointless.

I'm warning everyone right now that this guy probably won't listen to your advice, as he doesn't want to fix his life himself, he just wants it fixed and now. He wants a magic pill and we don't have one to give him, so post at your own caution.
Author:  santos_br [ Tue Apr 15, 2008 11:22 pm ]
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ok

leave this computer, go to a coffee shop and try to meet new people. start talking to new people in school or work (I don't know your age).

but BEFORE doing so, you must fix what's inside you. and I can't give realistic advice on that for it's a very abstract problem =)
Author:  keruli [ Wed Apr 16, 2008 4:47 am ]
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So in a nutshell your life sucks , and u ask us how to be happy ?

First of all what would make u happy ? If someone talks about having a succesful life what do U imagine ?
See we dont know that , and thats why u keep getting "nonsense" answers. They only appear to be nonsense couse it just isnt what u are looking for.

Secondly , its like Rye says there are no magic pills. Every professional athlete will tell ya that in order to reach your goal there will be lots of effort , pain and suffering. It only makes your accomplishments taste all the sweeter.

If u are willing to suffer trough 10 nonsense answers for that 1 answer that might help ya (even tough it only gives u a small improvement ) then please reply . If not, well dont bother , couse we wont be able to help ya anyway.
Author:  96Firebird [ Wed Apr 16, 2008 4:58 am ]
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Rye Lee has it. Kid, (even though you are older than me, you're certainly not acting it) shape up. Stop blaming others for your shitty life... How has that worked for you in the past?

Think about it.
Author:  GC Blue [ Wed Apr 16, 2008 6:50 am ]
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Read lots. Read 'The Game' by Neil Strauss. Read stuff by Mystery, and learn his Mystery Method. Read stuff on the internet. Good luck brother in arms.
Author:  Resurrection08 [ Wed Apr 16, 2008 7:47 pm ]
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You've been given realistic advice and some of us poured our hearts out, with very private details of our lives in the hope of helping you, yet you refuse to take responsibility for your own life and continue to blaim the "world" and "life" for it. Fine, even claim that where you are isn't your fault, it generally isn't, but you need to take responsibility for fixing it from here on out, or your being here is pointless.

I'm warning everyone right now that this guy probably won't listen to your advice, as he doesn't want to fix his life himself, he just wants it fixed and now. He wants a magic pill and we don't have one to give him, so post at your own caution.
Well whats the fucking point when there is people like you anyway?
I have every right to demand success now after all its long overdue and Ive worked hard enough and been through enough shit in life so I wont have anyone trying to tell me any different.
And as for 96Firebird, why should I take responsiblility for the shit Ive been through when none of it is even my fault?
Author:  Resurrection08 [ Wed Apr 16, 2008 7:49 pm ]
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Read lots. Read 'The Game' by Neil Strauss. Read stuff by Mystery, and learn his Mystery Method. Read stuff on the internet. Good luck brother in arms.
Cheers dude appreciated :wink:
Author:  keruli [ Wed Apr 16, 2008 9:35 pm ]
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I have every right to demand success now after all its long overdue and Ive worked hard enough and been through enough shit in life ...
So your live sucked , altough u worked hard enough and now u demand succes. ( Its intirely possible that your demand for succes is legit , i barely know ya , i am in no position to judge your claim )

However to expect " the cosmic universe" to right all wrongs, give u your succes on a silver platter simply couse u earned it is a bit naive.
I would advise to join some sort of religious forum. What u want is out of our (PUA) league.

I wish u the best in life , may u find the answers we cant provide.
Author:  96Firebird [ Wed Apr 16, 2008 10:10 pm ]
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What IS long overdue is for you to grow up. Seriously, keep living life like it owes you something. See where that gets you. While I go to school, get my degree, start a career and family. In 10 years we can look back and see whose outlook was better.
Author:  Resurrection08 [ Wed Apr 16, 2008 10:21 pm ]
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What IS long overdue is for you to grow up. Seriously, keep living life like it owes you something. See where that gets you. While I go to school, get my degree, start a career and family. In 10 years we can look back and see whose outlook was better.
Me Grow Up? Please dont give me that patronising rubbish Ive had to grow up a lot faster than most people.
And Keruli please a religious forum isnt going to help me, Ive learned in this life theres nothing but your family and friends, there is no god etc, everything Ive been through Ive survived through my own strength and strong will so I dont have to thank any so called god for that.
Author:  96Firebird [ Wed Apr 16, 2008 10:26 pm ]
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Then act grown up.

I'm done with this post. If you want to keep trying to convince me your life is any worse than the next person's, feel free to PM me or find me in the chat. But be warned, I won't baby you. And good luck with this post, I'm not sure if your closeminded self will take any advice given.
Author:  keruli [ Wed Apr 16, 2008 10:59 pm ]
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And Keruli please a religious forum isnt going to help me, Ive learned in this life theres nothing but your family and friends, there is no god etc, everything Ive been through Ive survived through my own strength and strong will so I dont have to thank any so called god for that.
Every man his own beliefs. But i would say u are out of luck, becouse what u are asking for is a miracle.
Author:  fortunehooks [ Wed Apr 16, 2008 11:10 pm ]
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Resurrection, my man the first thing you have to do is understand, that people have no qualms to every pay you the debt that you feel owed to you. The only way you can become even close to fixing your issues with ladies, is to first fix the issues within yourself. Listen, I have issues as well, and sometimes I feel like I am owed more, but what I realize is that by pushing myself past those barriers, the time is gonna come where I will get my just due. I want to help you my man, I am not into the writing folks off business, I learned the hard way in situations like that.
Author:  Fiction dTAJIr8v [ Thu Apr 17, 2008 12:12 pm ]
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I'm only going to post one time, and this is all I will say.

Thus far, everyone, including myself has said something about taking responsibility for your life and dwelling/complaining about your present problems accomplish nothing and are self-indulgent. YOU are the only person who insists on mentioning these problems. Isn't it at least worth considering the things other people are telling you instead of raging at them for "talking rubbish"?

Now you've made four separate threads with literally the same content in the OP and have gotten the exact same response every time. Rather than just asking for general "advice", how about you go out in the field, determine your sticking points, and THEN ask specific, pointed questions about how to improve your game.

If you want a good start, buy Strauss' Rules of the Game, for a good introduction.
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