Hey guys,
In high school I used to be infatuated with this girl, she's an HB10. Literally the girl I would want to marry. I'm not in love with her anymore (2 years after high school). I made two attemps to ask her out on a date 3 and 4 years ago...
I had ZERO game. I got flaked completely, but I'm 100% sure she showed some IOIs. I didn't get friendzoned, I made my intentions clear from the beginning.
I think I went way too direct on her. During my first attempt I asked her out on a date out of nowhere. During my scecond attempt I asked her out for my high school prom, she ditched me for my best friend, who's completely friendzoned by her. I eventually got a nice date but I didn't get the girl I wanted...
About 2 years after these facts I'm seeing her again at a high school alumni reunion. It's a pretty formal occasion so I don't think I could actually pull her but I do think I should be able to finally get her number. I don't go to the same university as she does, but I have seen her at some parties. I didn't show any interest in her. 100% due to my pride. I ignored her and made some moves on other girls in front of her. She showed some actions of jealousy but she's too smart to make these actions obvious.
Again, I used to be a complete victim of a one-itis for her, but I'm not anymore. I still care about her because I still see her as a potential partner, but nothing more. I don't see her as the "perfect" girl. I still like her, even when she's flaked me twice. I don't think I'm willing to give up just yet.
What should I do? Should I make a move on her at the reunion? How should I do it? Or should I just ignore her and move on?
PS: I obviously do still care about her to write this post. I'm not thinking about her all the time, but I am thinking about her on sporadic moments.