Hey all, right i know going back to an ex is a bad idea but it just happened.
Ill try and be as brief as possible.
Was dating a girl for a year, she chased me etc... unknown to me i had many good traits, wasnt jealous, needy insecure etc... untill the last month of the relationship when one of her best male friends made a move on her when she was drunk, nothing happened but i didnt want her hanging out with him again... stupid mistake i know
Anyway it ended good but she kept contacting me every day and i told her to stop as i needed space, things got messy and we stopped talking. Then i started reading the game, david deAngelos book and Carlos Xumas book. Within 3 weeks i was a new man, was meeting lots of women etc.. and my life had taken a turn for the better in terms of career and health.
So i hadnt talked to the ex in about 8 weeks, not even for her birthday, valentines etc... then one night she contacts me, i ignore it and week later she contacts me again, this goes on for about 6 weeks then 3 weeks ago we bumped into each other in a club and hooked up, she declared her love for me and that she really missed me etc...
Now we met up a few times after that for friendly chats, said she would never get back into a relationship with me and i responded "your right, we are much better as just friends" so in the end she didnt know what she wanted and i said, lets just be friends and leave it at that, she agreed, that night she arrived at my doorstep and ended up in the bedroom where she stayed the night, i had to leave early the next morning and didnt contact her at all that day, she thought i used her... the following weekend she called up to my house on fri and sat but nothing happened, just a little kis goodnight when she left...
So here is my problem (at last you say after that rant
)I know there is sexual chemistry but how do i highten the attraction in her ?
She has contacted me everyday since we slept together, even ringing when she is out on the town with her friends, but my gut tells me that i need to amplfy the attraction..
Any advice ?