So there's this girl that came to one of my parties last September. We talked a little bit and I found out we both are trying to learn German. Added her on facebook and made the mistake of being a pussy and never talking to her other than inviting her to another one of our parties (which she said maybe to but never showed). But she keeps liking stuff I upload. So the other day I message her.

Me: (her name)! When are you gonna teach me some Deutsche?
Her: (my name)! Anytime haha
Me: It's a date! When's a good time for you next week?

Me 24 hours later: Don't be shy now. Time of your life I promise.

That last text was a last-ditch effort to get her to at least respond and I was not excepting it to work. Yes it was probably shit and borderline creepy but hey a 2% chance is better than a 0% chance. What could I have done better other than message her back in September like a non-pussy?

Me: (her name)! When are you gonna teach me some Deutsche?
Her: (my name)! Anytime haha
Me: It's a date! When's a good time for you next week?

Me 24 hours later: Don't be shy now. Time of your life I promise.

So I guess the exact same texts (the first two) are bad even if I sent them the day after I met her instead of four months later? I thought being direct, to the point and not having long text conversations that lead nowhere were key.

I thought being direct, to the point
and not having long text conversations that lead nowhere were key.

So there's this girl that came to one of my parties last September. We talked a little bit and I found out we both are trying to learn German. Added her on facebook and made the mistake of being a pussy and never talking to her other than inviting her to another one of our parties (which she said maybe to but never showed). But she keeps liking stuff I upload. So the other day I message her.

Me: (her name)! When are you gonna teach me some Deutsche?
Her: (my name)! Anytime haha
Me: It's a date! When's a good time for you next week?

Me 24 hours later: Don't be shy now. Time of your life I promise.

That last text was a last-ditch effort to get her to at least respond and I was not excepting it to work. Yes it was probably shit and borderline creepy but hey a 2% chance is better than a 0% chance. What could I have done better other than message her back in September like a non-pussy?

What are you going to do with her? Like where are you meeting her and what are you doing

I just waited an hour and said I'm free at X time tomorrow. Let's get coffee. That was half an hour ago waiting for her to get back to me. I'm gonna be optimistic and assume she's just shy and not the type of girl to play those stupid games over text. Those girls are the worst.

I just waited an hour and said I'm free at X time tomorrow. Let's get coffee. That was half an hour ago waiting for her to get back to me. I'm gonna be optimistic and assume she's just shy and not the type of girl to play those stupid games over text. Those girls are the worst.

OK WTF she responded! And she said haha what time works for you? Since she took three days to reply to me I'm not gonna worry about replying right away but this is so weird I actually don't know what to say.

I just waited an hour and said I'm free at X time tomorrow. Let's get coffee. That was half an hour ago waiting for her to get back to me. I'm gonna be optimistic and assume she's just shy and not the type of girl to play those stupid games over text. Those girls are the worst.