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Author:  seagullboy1974 [ Fri Dec 02, 2016 12:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Advice need...2 very hot girls texting.
I have recently joined the App Happn, and as I work in central London I'm going on dates with loads of women. The standard is very high generally, probably just through seer numbers!

Anyway, the last 2 women sent loads of texts before the date and responded straight away, then very delayed responses after. I will give yo the exact texts below:

Woman 1: Very hot, high powered, very high earning business woman (CEO) and psychotherapist! Very high opinion of herself and mixes with celebrities (which she shamelessly dropped into the convo!). Gamed her very averagely, as I avoided too many obvious routines as with her training, thought she might spot PUA and disqualification techniques etc etc.

Woman 2: Hot, private doctor in Central London, very high earning, fairly modest, but knows she is hot. - gamed her good!


Woman 1 (after date)

Me: Just got back. hope you're not still working away? 22.49

Her 0658 next day: Lovely to meet you (my name). I crashed when I got in! Looking forward to my first day off in 2 weeks Sunday! Hope you have a good rest of week. x

Me 0741: You too. I was expecting a hard nosed ball breaker in you! You have quite a soft feminine side. I'm off to (someplace) in a bit and its' freezing :-(

Me 0840: Do you look good in a wooly hat?

Her 0853: Wool too scratchy for me!!

Me 20.00: Just seen a jumped suited Elvis on the TV..reminded me of you. You do realise you're the first blonde I've met up with in years? (both running jokes)

Me 22.54 28hoursish after no reply: It was nice to chat. Take care (my name).

Her: 23.55: You too (my name) Take care too x



Woman 2 (after date):

Me 2248: I hope you managed to get the log burner roaring? (see mentioned it a lot)

Her 18.08: Sorry for the delayed reply been a busy day! yes i did thanks! Hope you had a nice dinner. A

Me 0838: It was lovely. Just realised you're the first non blonde I've met up with in ages! Busy day planned?

No reply for 36 hours

Me 22.53: It was nice to chat. Take care . (my name)

Her: 2332: Hi (my name) it was lovely to chat to you too. Sorry have not replied has been a bit of a crazy week as just resigned from my job so been a bit pre-occupied. Hope you had a good week. Take care Ax



Advise Please! What should I do now?

I have lots of other dates, and women from other sources on the go, so it wouldn't be the end of the world to walk away. also I know I did lots of things wrong after the date, text wise. But I want to know have to proceed, NOT where I went wrong (I am very aware of where I went wrong and don't own a time machine).
Author:  nr32 [ Sat Dec 03, 2016 7:54 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice need...2 very hot girls texting.
What is your goal with these texts?
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Sat Dec 03, 2016 10:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice need...2 very hot girls texting.
Quote:
Woman 1 (after date)

Me: Just got back. hope you're not still working away? 22.49

Her 0658 next day: Lovely to meet you (my name). I crashed when I got in! Looking forward to my first day off in 2 weeks Sunday! Hope you have a good rest of week. x

Me 0741: You too. I was expecting a hard nosed ball breaker in you! You have quite a soft feminine side. I'm off to (someplace) in a bit and its' freezing :-(

Me 0840: Do you look good in a wooly hat?

Her 0853: Wool too scratchy for me!!
Jesus. What's with the frowny emoticon and complaining about the weather? You look like a 13 year old girl. And the "hope you're still not working line" is too much caring, too soon. And it's not genuine. You want to bang her, not coordinate her work hours.

Just all around awful texting.

Her "have a good week" line was to get you to stop talking to her, yet you double texted, lol.

This one is over.

Quote:
Me 20.00: Just seen a jumped suited Elvis on the TV..reminded me of you. You do realise you're the first blonde I've met up with in years? (both running jokes)

Me 22.54 28hoursish after no reply: It was nice to chat. Take care (my name).

Her: 23.55: You too (my name) Take care too x

Canned lines, pedestal texting, etc. "Take care" means "goodbye". The double texting is sad. Yet she repied because she feels terrible for you. A sweet girl who can't stand nice guys. And be careful not to mention in-jokes too much. It looks like you can't build positive new moments and rely on the past.



Quote:

Woman 2 (after date):

Me 2248: I hope you managed to get the log burner roaring? (see mentioned it a lot)

You did it again, man. You don't give a fuck about her log burner, you want to put your log in her fireplace! You are masking your intentions with Nice-Guy-Syndrome. You're not being congruent, nor leading. If you spoke and acted like this on the date, you were way too nice and they weren't into it (as most attractive women aren't).

Quote:
Her 18.08: Sorry for the delayed reply been a busy day! yes i did thanks! Hope you had a nice dinner. A
You took her out to dinner on the first date? No. Just no. Did you bring roses to?

Quote:
Me 0838: It was lovely. Just realised you're the first non blonde I've met up with in ages! Busy day planned?
Jesus christ. "Lovely"? Are you a woman?
Quote:
No reply for 36 hours
No shit? I guess "lovely" didn't get her wet, nor your admission that you never hang out with women, because most are brunettes.
Quote:
Me 22.53: It was nice to chat. Take care . (my name)

Her: 2332: Hi (my name) it was lovely to chat to you too. Sorry have not replied has been a bit of a crazy week as just resigned from my job so been a bit pre-occupied. Hope you had a good week. Take care Ax
Double text. Ugh. And why do you keep saying "Take care"?

Quote:
Advise Please! What should I do now?

You completely friend-zoned yourself by being a nice guy weirdo. Just for fun, I'd text both of them this, because you have nothing to lose:

"Hey XXX, I'm celebrating good news and want to have a bit of fun. Drinks at my place, 10pm"


You were such a nice, wimpy date that they won't expect this at all, lol. And if they ignore you, fuck it. But you're not getting into either of their pants unless you do something direct and bold.

My advice otherwise is to revamp your text game. It sucks. You seem to be able to get these dates, so congratulations. But you're nice guy behavior is making you thirsty. Don't text girls things you don't give a shit about, like their work hours of their fucking log burners, lol. That's creepy nice guy shit.

You should've noticed that the dates weren't going well. However, there are things to fix that, right after the date (you should be taking the women home, NOT texting them after the date). But since you didn't, I'd do this next time:



Me: Just got back. The date didn't blow me away. I think we'd do better drunk and naked. 22.49

Her THAT NIGHT: hahaha, maybe.

You: Round 2 at my place. Bring your favorite beverage.




Me 2248 after date: Do you agree the date was just okay?

Her THAT NIGHT: Yes! So glad to hear you say it.

Me 0838: We've found our common ground, lol.

HER: True, lol.

Me: Let's celebrate our first agreement. Drinks at my place in a half hour. Wear something hotter than what you showed up in earlier.


Honesty and congruency are the two most effective tools in early game. These tools are capable of getting the girl in bed that night, or turning bad dates around.
Author:  HERC [ Sat Dec 03, 2016 11:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice need...2 very hot girls texting.
This thread should be PDF' and shared as a primary free resource to all - thank u to the OP for freely sharing and thanks to Arch for the fucking awesome "telestrator-esque" breakdown.

I have tears in my eyes from the awesome.

- HERC
Author:  Curtis72 [ Sat Dec 03, 2016 3:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice need...2 very hot girls texting.
Quote:
Me: Just got back. The date didn't blow me away. I think we'd do better drunk and naked. 22.49

Her THAT NIGHT: hahaha, maybe.

You: Round 2 at my place. Bring your favorite beverage.




Me 2248 after date: Do you agree the date was just okay?

Her THAT NIGHT: Yes! So glad to hear you say it.

Me 0838: We've found our common ground, lol.

HER: True, lol.

Me: Let's celebrate our first agreement. Drinks at my place in a half hour. Wear something hotter than what you showed up in earlier.


Honesty and congruency are the two most effective tools in early game. These tools are capable of getting the girl in bed that night, or turning bad dates around.
Does this lead to girls running away very much. You've got more experience with this than me, but it seems really polarising and likely to drive away a lot of girls.
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Sat Dec 03, 2016 5:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice need...2 very hot girls texting.
Your fear of driving away girls is what's driving away girls.
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