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How to proceed with this flake?
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Author:  HotNight223 [ Sun Nov 27, 2016 5:56 pm ]
Post subject:  How to proceed with this flake?
Still got a lot to learn. Smashed a cutie last night so i'm not that bothered, but was meant to meet a 7/10 this evening, i called but no answer then got the following:

Oh my god. I am so sorry! I just got your voice mail. I'm just going to see my friend in Worcester as she's had a bit of shit time at work and gone off sick. I'm so sorry to do this to you!

I replied, 'thats disappointing, no worries'.

Shes not read it yet.
Author:  JackZero [ Sun Nov 27, 2016 6:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to proceed with this flake?
Don't worry about it too much because IRL stuff does come up. So treat her like you did before she flaked. Just don't start chasing her if she flakes again.
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Sun Nov 27, 2016 7:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to proceed with this flake?
You may have hurt yourself with the "that's disappointing line". I've dumped/ghosted needy woman who have used that language too early.

Be neutral and indifferent, and diffuse here obvious long, lying text:

You: Cool, no worries.

Then wait to hear from her. This chill indifference can pull a women on the fence to your side of the pasture.

Also, why did you call to confirm? Thats weak behavior. And avoid voicemail in general.
Author:  HotNight223 [ Sun Nov 27, 2016 7:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to proceed with this flake?
Quote:
You may have hurt yourself with the "that's disappointing line". I've dumped/ghosted needy woman who have used that language too early.

Be neutral and indifferent, and diffuse here obvious long, lying text:

You: Cool, no worries.

Then wait to hear from her. This chill indifference can pull a women on the fence to your side of the pasture.

Also, why did you call to confirm? Thats weak behavior. And avoid voicemail in general.
Because i hadnt spoken to her on the phone yet, brief chat on tinder/SPAM then scheduled a meet 5 days later with minimal contact in between
Author:  Starboy [ Sun Nov 27, 2016 7:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to proceed with this flake?
I always send a text an hour before the meet-up with something like, I'll be there in an hour, let me know when you get close.

That way I don't have to go if she doesn't respond.

On topic.

You should wait a week while talking to other women, and then re-contact her if you really want to see her. If not, in a weeks time you'll have lined up at least another date. You should be able to get a date in a day, but that's besides the point. In a week she'll either be happy you contacted her back or have forgotten about you and moved on.
Author:  kidfromcro [ Sun Nov 27, 2016 8:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to proceed with this flake?
i usually give 2 chances,the girl flaked day before yesterday for the second time and send me a message are we gonna chat,so i flaked
Author:  HotNight223 [ Sun Nov 27, 2016 8:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to proceed with this flake?
Quote:
i usually give 2 chances,the girl flaked day before yesterday for the second time and send me a message are we gonna chat,so i flaked
Lol nicely done.
Is it ever a good idea to voice your abundance with something like,

'Ah well, i've got a cute Italian who keeps pestering me to meet, she'll have to take your place'
Author:  kidfromcro [ Sun Nov 27, 2016 8:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to proceed with this flake?
nope,you shouldn't care at all if you have choices,just ignore and move on
Author:  Starboy [ Sun Nov 27, 2016 8:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to proceed with this flake?
plus that won't do anything but upset the woman. That's more of a burn the bridge sort of comment. It won't spark jealousy or anything like that, especially if you haven't slept with her.
Author:  HotNight223 [ Sun Nov 27, 2016 9:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to proceed with this flake?
Quote:
plus that won't do anything but upset the woman. That's more of a burn the bridge sort of comment. It won't spark jealousy or anything like that, especially if you haven't slept with her.
What are the realistic odds of meeting a girl who's flaked once though? May as well go out in style
Author:  kidfromcro [ Sun Nov 27, 2016 9:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to proceed with this flake?
there could be million reasons for a flake,don't judge,give her another chance,but not too much,i usually give 2,if she is bitchy i give 1 or none
Author:  HotNight223 [ Sun Nov 27, 2016 9:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to proceed with this flake?
Well no response and her Tinder shows shes nearby, exposing the lie.
I'll just move on to the next and number delete
Author:  kidfromcro [ Sun Nov 27, 2016 9:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to proceed with this flake?
don't waste time being pissed on a girl that flaked,and don't get stuck on tinder alone,go out,there are awesome girls out there,i have met one last night but was too drunk to remember pretty much anything
Author:  Finished [ Sun Nov 27, 2016 9:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to proceed with this flake?
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Because i hadnt spoken to her on the phone yet, brief chat on tinder/SPAM then scheduled a meet 5 days later with minimal contact in between
Always a good idea to hit up a couple of girls to invite closer to the time you actually have free for sex. Girls usually act in the moment, so a quick "Hey, hows things" and then "What are you up to tonight?" sent out to a number of girls is better than arranging a girl to meet 5 days in advance when anything can happen.
Author:  HotNight223 [ Sun Nov 27, 2016 10:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to proceed with this flake?
Lol as suspected, deleted her number and got a reply within 30 seconds. Have my SPAM set so if i delete it, they cant see my picture anymore.
She had been online pretty much constantly since i left the last message. I'll never understand where girls learn these games. I know its all part of the PUA life but every now and then you come across the most down to earth, no BS girl and when you do, its such a relief. Like the one i smashed last night, some chit chat over text, met for a drink and convo flowed well. And that was that. Creampied her ass in the morning, showered and went home.
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