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Author:  leon19 [ Mon Nov 21, 2016 1:22 pm ]
Post subject:  has any of u ever successfully stopped masturbating

I have been trying to stop for months now but I keep going back. I used to think it was the easiest habit to stop doing.

Author:  R.C [ Mon Nov 21, 2016 1:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: has any of u ever successfully stopped masturbating

I did.

Author:  leon19 [ Mon Nov 21, 2016 5:22 pm ]
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I did.
I would like 2 know how you overcame the urge.
The highest I have lasted without masturbating is 2 weeks.

Author:  R.C [ Mon Nov 21, 2016 7:24 pm ]
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Having sex helps. Other than that there's no secret. It's just will. Just like quitting smoking.

Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Mon Nov 21, 2016 10:30 pm ]
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If I get laid two times a week I don't really bother.

Other than that, willpower

Author:  Curtis72 [ Tue Nov 22, 2016 3:10 am ]
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What's the point?

Author:  Hollysterius [ Tue Nov 22, 2016 12:19 pm ]
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I did, my "secret" is to keep busy with other stuff, so you don't really think about masturbation because you got so much else on your mind.

Author:  Arkive [ Tue Nov 22, 2016 8:30 pm ]
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Our sexual energy as men is really the most powerful inner motivating resource that we have.

Therefore self-control in this area is very important if we want to actualize ourselves to our highest potential.

In order to do this, we must transmute this energy into something else; such as work, game with women, life mission etc.

Much has been written on this subject and the best place to start learning about this topic is in Napoleon Hill's book Think and Grow Rich.

He wrote a whole chapter on this area called Sex Transmutation.

I would recommend you look up this chapter on Google and read and re read this chapter.

When I first came across this, it was a paradigm shift for me.

Hope this helps.

Love,

Arkive

Author:  leon19 [ Wed Nov 23, 2016 4:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: has any of u ever successfully stopped masturbating

Thanks everyone for the replies. They were really helpful.
Quote:
What's the point?
I start feeling depressed after masturbating every single time.

Author:  leon19 [ Wed Nov 23, 2016 4:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: has any of u ever successfully stopped masturbating

Quote:
Our sexual energy as men is really the most powerful inner motivating resource that we have.

Therefore self-control in this area is very important if we want to actualize ourselves to our highest potential.

In order to do this, we must transmute this energy into something else; such as work, game with women, life mission etc.

Much has been written on this subject and the best place to start learning about this topic is in Napoleon Hill's book Think and Grow Rich.

He wrote a whole chapter on this area called Sex Transmutation.

I would recommend you look up this chapter on Google and read and re read this chapter.

When I first came across this, it was a paradigm shift for me.

Hope this helps.

Love,

Arkive
Thanks for the advice.
I'm going to download a copy right now and read that chapter.

Author:  Starboy [ Wed Nov 23, 2016 8:54 am ]
Post subject:  Re: has any of u ever successfully stopped masturbating

Quote:
Our sexual energy as men is really the most powerful inner motivating resource that we have.

Therefore self-control in this area is very important if we want to actualize ourselves to our highest potential.

In order to do this, we must transmute this energy into something else; such as work, game with women, life mission etc.

Much has been written on this subject and the best place to start learning about this topic is in Napoleon Hill's book Think and Grow Rich.

He wrote a whole chapter on this area called Sex Transmutation.

I would recommend you look up this chapter on Google and read and re read this chapter.

When I first came across this, it was a paradigm shift for me.

Hope this helps.

Love,

Arkive
I have the book but I haven't taken the time to read it through. I recently put it on my to-do list because I'm trying to obtain a sort of dire obsessive relentless motivation, and that book was recommended.

As far as the fapping. I had stopped for 3 months while I was launching a book. It's easier to fap than to go on a date and seduce a woman, but seduction is more fun. Plus I like the way women make me feel when I'm around them and I haven't fapped. So I usually don't when I'm pipe-lining women or in a steady relationship.

Author:  HotNight223 [ Wed Nov 23, 2016 10:15 am ]
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Quote:
Thanks everyone for the replies. They were really helpful.
Quote:
What's the point?
I start feeling depressed after masturbating every single time.
Thats becase you have depression, hop on Prozac

Author:  Furiox [ Wed Nov 23, 2016 12:14 pm ]
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Get more woman to have sex with so you don't feel the urge to masturbate... its quite simple.

Author:  mojo.dojo [ Sat Nov 26, 2016 10:02 pm ]
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This is what I am trying ....

I am tapering off....

I am reducing how often I do it.

I went from once or twice a day, to once every few days, to once every week...

I feel much less of a need to do it, now.

Jerking off releases the same brain chemicals as doing hard drugs (Dopamine, c-Fos) which is why you get excited about doing it, enjoy it like crazy, then feel unhappy afterwards and have a hard time giving it up.

I notice I feel less guilty only doing it once a week. I plan to reduce even more, over time.

I feel more motivated to work on my other goals, not doing it, so I don't think about it as much.

When I do get around to doing it, I try to watch porn with average-looking women, which seems to help, for some reason ....

Author:  Black Phantom [ Tue Nov 29, 2016 6:46 pm ]
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The emotion of sex is an "irresistible force," against which there can be no such opposition as an "immovable body."
When driven by this emotion, men become gifted with a super power for action. Understand this truth, and you will
catch the significance of the statement that sex transmutation will lift one to the status of a genius.


- Napoleon Hill, Think and grow rich,
Chapter: Sexual Transmutation


Full chapter here:
http://www.sacred-texts.com/nth/tgr/tgr16.htm

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