one of them said, " i would do her"

This happens a lot. I hate it when the guy feels the need that he has to respond.

Don't forget it's not all about you. The guy himself may feel disrespected by the comment, and will respond accordingly whether you like it or not.

What if the guy tries to retaliate and I get hurt because of it? Maybe it isn't about me, but I like a guy that's centered and has good sense and knows what to do in stressful situations. It shows his ego is fragile if a stranger can get under his skin like that.

I agree with all of that. But sometimes a man has to stand up for himself. A response (or lack of) all depends on context.

If another man disrespects my woman (or me) in public to a certain level, he will pay a price.

How is it that you agree with all of it and then turn around and say you'd choose to do the wrong thing? Wouldn't it be better to ignore him and take her home and have sex with her?

I'm going to have sex with her anyway, lol.

I don't choose how to respond to life based on others. If I feel disrespected to the point of admonishing verbally or tossing a guy through a window, I will. It all depends.

If I know the person and they are just awkward, they get a pass. If it comes off as malicious, no pass.

One of my girlfriends had a boyfriend that felt disrespected much like the guy who wrote this post and he verbally responded and she got punched and had a swollen eye because of it and stitches.

We both worked as waitresses at the time, so now she had to miss work because she wasn't presentable. Would you feel responsible for her pain and loss of income because you couldn't just walk away or is she just a casualty in your eyes?

+ You wouldn't be having sex with her that night.

I'm 6'3 220, so they usually back down.

haha this is sooooo dramatic. Cute.

You never know. However, sex is not some rare mythical thing for me. I don't base my actions in life on whether I'll get laid that night, because sooner rather than later I'll be having more.

]Wow. You think 6'3" 220 means nothing when you're outnumbered? How did you go from agreeing to everything that I said to "dramatic"? Is that your way of saying that your thinking is flawed so you're going to call me dramatic to avoid feeling silly? This is probably why I prefer more mature men than the guys with the frat guy mentality. They are more about protecting the girl than their egos.