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Author:  a3ghost [ Sun Apr 06, 2008 8:28 am ]
Post subject:  Conversation with girl? What did I do wrong?
I had a conversation with a girl earlier on last night (about 9-ish) at a club.
On the looks she was pretty chubby and probably between a 6.5 and a 7. I didn't think I would get nervous talking to a girl at that scale but I guess I still gotta start slow and gain up.

Basically it went like this:

Me: Hey wassup
Her: Hey, nothing much u?
Me: Just trying to kill off time
Her: Oh yeah same here.
Me: What time did you get here?
Her: I got here like a few hours back, u?
Me: Yeah just got here right now.
Her: I see.
Me: Yeah i heard it from a friend that this club was pretty good.
Her: Yeah i like it.
Me: Yeah it has a lot of potential even though its new.
Her: i know huh. Well it was nice talking to you.
Me: yeah you too.

Then end of conversation.

My first sarge wasn't that bad as I thought it would be. As long as you treat it like a game it doesn't hurt. But yeah any tips on how to keep a conversation going for like more than 1 minute?
Author:  Jacks [ Sun Apr 06, 2008 9:00 am ]
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hay man
it seemed like u treated her like she was worth your attention. show her that she is just another girl, how u can get any but you are talking to her. get her interested in you, show her how lcuky she is to have you talking to her. tell stories nad the such. as the term is DHV demonstrate higher value
Author:  tk750 [ Sun Apr 06, 2008 7:00 pm ]
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Totally obvious that you digged this chick from the beginning.

I think Juggler made a point about saying how when talking to a girl, you want to make open ended statements rather than narrow questions. Your questions were rather narrow such as, "What time did you get here?" Instead you want to make big questions such as "Hey, why do you like to dance? Then you can build rapport and connection." Anyways, it sounds like you're just uncomfortable with women. Destroy that, and you should be fine.
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