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Author:  thespikez [ Tue Oct 11, 2016 7:04 am ]
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I have gotten in a fuck buddy relationship with this chick from my dormroom and college, she kinda got under my skin cause always after we fuck we cuddle and sleep together and all that shit, we were talking at the beginning about how relationships sucks and al that shit, she knows i'm a player and we talk about other girls i'm seeing and that i am rude cause i don' t answer their phone calls or messages.
I think she started to realise i'm kinda falling for her, how do i turn this into a relationship, we have mutual friends and kinda hide from few of them, i need to get this fixed, i have like 4-5 girls waiting to go out with me, but right now i just kinda want her.
I don't want to start being needy and all that shit, do you guys think it is a good idea to propose a relationship cause i think i will be fucked up when i will see her with some other guys. She doesn't seem like the jealous type when she hears about my side girls, BUT i want her to be!
She is very opened sexualy and told.me about most of her relationships and one night stands, and she did few things .... :).
Author:  E__ [ Tue Oct 11, 2016 7:46 am ]
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I don't know if this really applies due to he fact you already sleep with her but I think you may have one-itis. Go sleep with those girls hitting you up and see if the flower is still so special
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Tue Oct 11, 2016 7:51 am ]
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All you can do is be her best option. Be the fun, chill, emotionally centered guy who's better in bed than the others....and she'll bring up exclusivity in an effort not to lose you.
Author:  R.C [ Tue Oct 11, 2016 8:13 am ]
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All you can do is be her best option. Be the fun, chill, emotionally centered guy who's better in bed than the others....and she'll bring up exclusivity in an effort not to lose you.
This. Let her bring exclusivity to you. Meanwhile take those 4-5 girls out on dates.
Author:  E__ [ Tue Oct 11, 2016 8:14 am ]
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See arch Stanton I would agree with you but we don't even know how this girl feels about him yet. So if she's seeing others unless I've missed something she's not that into him just a place holder for now. That's why I said he should take the cure for one-itis
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Oct 11, 2016 2:47 pm ]
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All you can do is be her best option. Be the fun, chill, emotionally centered guy who's better in bed than the others....and she'll bring up exclusivity in an effort not to lose you.
This. Let her bring exclusivity to you. Meanwhile take those 4-5 girls out on dates.
+1

All you need to do is fuck her real good, rub her tummy, and feed her a treat here and there. Kinda like a puppy. But don't fuck a puppy weirdo.
Author:  JackZero [ Tue Oct 11, 2016 2:54 pm ]
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See arch Stanton I would agree with you but we don't even know how this girl feels about him yet. So if she's seeing others unless I've missed something she's not that into him just a place holder for now. That's why I said he should take the cure for one-itis
Not really sure what you mean "we don't know how this girl feels about him yet." This doesn't even matter when it comes to a fb relationship. If the guy doesn't catch feelings, the girl will. Arch gave him the path of not vomiting his feelings, but instead making him the guy that she won't want to share.
Author:  E__ [ Tue Oct 11, 2016 3:44 pm ]
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What I mean is just because he feels some type of way about her doesn't mean she feels anything to him about it. If she does than absolutely arch is right be the guy she doesn't want to share but if she doesn't than fuck those 4-5 other girls and see if she is still so special to you
Author:  Sonny Lofthus [ Tue Oct 11, 2016 3:49 pm ]
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keep fucking her and one day, she will ask you "are we together"?
Author:  JackZero [ Tue Oct 11, 2016 3:55 pm ]
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What I mean is just because he feels some type of way about her doesn't mean she feels anything to him about it. If she does than absolutely arch is right be the guy she doesn't want to share but if she doesn't than fuck those 4-5 other girls and see if she is still so special to you
I think you're missing the point. It makes no difference how she feels about it right now. A woman that's having sex with you and you show her the qualities that make yourself desirable outside of being a fuckbuddy, she's going to want you to be more than just a fuckbuddy and she'll make it known.

As a side note...If you find a girl that strictly wants a FB or FWB type of setup. Those are the easiest ones to get into a relationship if you give them exactly what they are asking for.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Oct 11, 2016 5:42 pm ]
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I don't want to start being needy and all that shit,

You already are.. And I'm sure she feels it and will begin to pull away unless you get it together.

My question to you is though: What about a sexually promiscuous, detached, and unfeeling woman causes you to intelligently think she would be a good candidate for a relationship? Do you genuinely like her? Or Are you just selfishly emotional and don't want anyone else to have her but you? Too many guys come onto the form and let an influx of hormones interfere with their ability to reason.

Would entering a relationship with her be an intelligent decision? If no, why do you want to do something thats unintelligent? Just because you FEEL that way? What happens if you stop going to work on all the days you don't feel like it? It's going to bite you in the ass.

Right now you're attaching and she's detaching. When you start detaching, she'll start attaching. Is it going to be easy to do so? Of course not, but this is the foundation you laid from the very beginning.
Author:  E__ [ Tue Oct 11, 2016 9:39 pm ]
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See that's what I was saying Eddie.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed Oct 12, 2016 12:16 am ]
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keep fucking her and one day, she will ask you "are we together"?

Yup. Let her bring it up.... people appreciate things more that they have to work for than something that is just handed to them....

You know what all women want? A relationship. Prince Charming to fall in love with them and sweep her off her feet.

Don't give yourself away. Make her work for you.
Author:  Autoregressive [ Wed Oct 12, 2016 6:11 am ]
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we were talking at the beginning about how relationships sucks and al that shit, she knows i'm a player and we talk about other girls i'm seeing and that i am rude cause i don' t answer their phone calls or messages.....

...i have like 4-5 girls waiting to go out with me ...

She doesn't seem like the jealous type when she hears about my side girls, BUT i want her to be!

She is very opened sexualy and told.me about most of her relationships and one night stands....
Based on what you said above:

She's into sleeping around / casual sex AND knows you're seeing other women - that's two HUGE reasons I seriously doubt she's going to propose you go exclusive, no matter how "amazing" you're going to be in bed or whatever. Maybe if you dragged it out and really made her fall for you, but that's a big BIG "maybe." She doesn't seem to be a relationship type and your relationship didn't really begin on a prime "LTR" potential note, so to speak.
Author:  R.C [ Wed Oct 12, 2016 7:07 am ]
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AND knows you're seeing other women -
That's exactly why she will.
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