You'd sign the paper work to buy a car before you even got to see what the inside looks like?

Man.... What s push over.

Pretty much this.

Relationships are not a deal you just sign without even knowing what you're getting lol. It's something you naturally evolve into - or don't - after you spend time and intimacy with someone.
That's what I do. I'm never "looking" for one thing or the either and I sure as hell don't buy the car before a test drive.

So you didn't tell her because you were afraid that if you were honest and upfront with her that it would ruin your chances of actually scoring? Well contrary to popular belief, taking that approach will score you a lot more lays and save you a lot more wasted time than pretending you're looking for something that you're actually not.

I personally don't even bring it up until a woman asks. I don't feel a reason to, I'm not just going to go around assuming that she's looking to marry me and have babies. However, the moment a woman hints in anyway(i.e. asking me how many other women I'm speaking to) or asks me what I'm looking for I immediately make it clear. I'm always polite and gentle about it though.

A woman is going to draw conclusions based off how you treat her though.. If you take her out on 5 dates, talk to her on the phone and text her all day everyday she's going to naturally assume that investing your time into her is something that you're willing to do.

Now in your situation just find a moment to inject " Hey, I just want to make something clear really quickly, because i see the direction this is going...." followed up by letting her know you're not long term interested. This may or may not screw your chances because you've already gave another impression, but its what you want and its the right thing to do. So give it a shot.. Theres always more, and as long as you know that, you'll always have.

Hey guys, I need some quick advice here. I've been seeing this Indian girl, haven't slept with her or kissed her. I could have, but the thing is she's fallen for me and is expecting an LTR. But that's not what I'm looking for. Since the beginning I've been trying to subtly hint that I don't want LTR, but apparently I didn't do well enough.

I'll see her tonight and tomorrow for dancing events, and I know she's expecting for me to make the move while I'm only looking for a one night stand. But now that's definitely off the table.

So first question, how do I tell her I'm not interested without hurting her feelings? Should I just tell her outright I'm not looking for this kind of relationship?

Second questions, how can I get across to girls that I'm looking for a fling and not something serious? And make it work?