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Author:  sonOfSatan [ Fri Sep 23, 2016 1:15 pm ]
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Hello. I need some tips to improve my text\SPAM game.

I have this childhood friend, she is living in another country now, and she comes back every summer, and i am planning to try my luck with her when she comes here. And so i am trying to generate some sort of Attraction with her via texting.
The tactic im using is just "10 minutes or more between each answer, with the occasional fast response \ treat"
i dunno if this is being efficient, but i notice that the more i "ignore her" the more needy she kinda gets, and the more she spams me. (slowly, gradual increase in spam over time, not instantaneous).
Im also not complimenting her, and i am disguising some negs (I guess thats what u call masked critiques?) inside banter, and whenever she tries to GayFriendize me with her daily problems instead of offering help, i just say stuff like "ohh :( thats fucked up" or something like that (I show some sort of empathy but dont give too much shit careing about it).
I said to her that when she comes back to our country i will take her out to have some fun (i didnt ask, i just said we would) and she told me to take her to a certaina place in my city (which i will not disclose because of privacy thing), and i told her "if u deserve it :) :P "
of course for obvious reasons i will not reveal personal details because everything we write here goes to google, but u understand that..
She lives a lot on the social networks to compensate her lack of social life in her new country, so i think that is an advantage for me.
And btw, she has some fanatic religious girl friends that are a lot toxic to her and try to turn her against me, and i am atheist

Any Tips on how to generate attraction in a situation like this where face-to-face real life contact can only happen rarely? I really want some help here...

Any books or tutorials dedicated to social networking and seduction?
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Sep 23, 2016 1:22 pm ]
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Any Tips on how to generate attraction
Get sexual. How long of a dry period are you gonna impose on yourself waiting till she gets to you?
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Fri Sep 23, 2016 3:37 pm ]
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Game as normal....texting like you wanna f her when she gets here
Author:  JackZero [ Fri Sep 23, 2016 4:06 pm ]
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Don't even go down this path. You're wanting to make a girl interested in you that won't be around for about a year over text messages. I know a lot of the texting guys will disagree with me, but you can't build sexual attraction through text. Even if you move from text to video...you'll still be at a disadvantage when time normalizes you from being an attractive guy(possibly) to just the guy she speaks to on her screen.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Sep 23, 2016 4:23 pm ]
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but you can't build sexual attraction through text.
Poppycock! I do it almost daily.

But trying to do it for an extreme wait. It's not worth it. Maybe get some nudies out of it.
Author:  JackZero [ Fri Sep 23, 2016 4:35 pm ]
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but you can't build sexual attraction through text.
Poppycock! I do it almost daily.

But trying to do it for an extreme wait. It's not worth it. Maybe get some nudies out of it.
For some reason I can't imagine you taking a phone number without expressing any interest in a woman before doing it. If the seed was already planted...then yes, text away. If it's coming from out of the blue, then it's an uphill battle unless she already had some interest in you.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Sep 23, 2016 4:38 pm ]
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For some reason I can't imagine you taking a phone number without expressing any interest in a woman before doing it. If the seed was already planted...then yes, text away. If it's coming from out of the blue, then it's an uphill battle unless she already had some interest in you.
Well yeah that's what I'm saying.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Fri Sep 23, 2016 4:44 pm ]
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but you can't build sexual attraction through text.
Poppycock! I do it almost daily.

But trying to do it for an extreme wait. It's not worth it. Maybe get some nudies out of it.

Word to both statements
Author:  JackZero [ Fri Sep 23, 2016 4:48 pm ]
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For some reason I can't imagine you taking a phone number without expressing any interest in a woman before doing it. If the seed was already planted...then yes, text away. If it's coming from out of the blue, then it's an uphill battle unless she already had some interest in you.
Well yeah that's what I'm saying.
This guy is a friend that's trying to change that dynamic over text. If there hasn't been any attraction from her, how can he change that through text?
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Sep 23, 2016 5:21 pm ]
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For some reason I can't imagine you taking a phone number without expressing any interest in a woman before doing it. If the seed was already planted...then yes, text away. If it's coming from out of the blue, then it's an uphill battle unless she already had some interest in you.
Well yeah that's what I'm saying.
This guy is a friend that's trying to change that dynamic over text. If there hasn't been any attraction from her, how can he change that through text?





I would start by expressing some sexual innuendo.
Author:  The_Professor [ Sat Sep 24, 2016 5:56 pm ]
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Don't even go down this path. You're wanting to make a girl interested in you that won't be around for about a year over text messages. I know a lot of the texting guys will disagree with me, but you can't build sexual attraction through text. Even if you move from text to video...you'll still be at a disadvantage when time normalizes you from being an attractive guy(possibly) to just the guy she speaks to on her screen.
^This. Focus on girls nearby. Honestly the less you text her the better. No more than once a week. A trick I use is telling a girl I well text her tomorrow or later tonight, and then finally send a text a week or two later.
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Sun Sep 25, 2016 1:22 am ]
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Hello. I need some tips to improve my text\SPAM game.

I have this childhood friend, she is living in another country now, and she comes back every summer, and i am planning to try my luck with her when she comes here. And so i am trying to generate some sort of Attraction with her via texting.


That's as far as I read.


Here's my advice:

When you are outside, LOOK UP FROM YOUR PHONE and talk to women who are in your time zone.
Author:  The_Professor [ Tue Sep 27, 2016 3:18 pm ]
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Hello. I need some tips to improve my text\SPAM game.

I have this childhood friend, she is living in another country now, and she comes back every summer, and i am planning to try my luck with her when she comes here. And so i am trying to generate some sort of Attraction with her via texting.


That's as far as I read.


Here's my advice:

When you are outside, LOOK UP FROM YOUR PHONE and talk to women who are in your time zone.
Generally speaking, when women leave their home country they become more loose. Accept the fact that when she comes back the best bet is that your a summer hookup. Distance is likely best.
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