i think one problem that affects my game is that i believe if a girl is physically attractive, she will make my life perfect. i have no other standards, i dont qualify her because she has already passed my only test (hot? yes? done.) instead of qualifying her, i qualify myself.

i think it would help me if i could see some problems that hot girls can potentially bring to your life. can you list some problems?

for example:
what if she is naggy?
what if she is stupid?
what if she is clingy?

those are the only the problems i could come up with, i suspect there are hundreds more that i dont know. can you list some problems?

I don't understand what's your point exactly.

my point is, when i see a hot girl, i think "ok, i am interested"
I have no standards, i have no questions in my mind about her. i dont wonder is she the right match for me? is she naggy? is she stupid? is she one of those self-entitled people? is she a racist?

i guess i am asking, how do i know what my standards are? what things should i watch out for when i meet a girl? what questions should i have about her in my mind? I am not asking you to tell me the questions because everybody's standards vary, I am asking how can I come up with the questions myself?

Instead of looking for negatives, look for positives. You're saying you're "qualifying" a girl but really you're just disqualifying her.... stop finding reasons to not like a girl.

If you notice an unattractive personality trait and it's something you can't tolerate, proceed with caution. Some girls can make your life a living hell after you sleep with them.